Jasmine Star Photography

MY NEW BLOG IS LIVE!

2007-05-16T14:40:00.001-07:00

Hi Everyone!

You can now visit my new blog, Jasmine Star Blog, as I'll be posting from there. Be sure to update your Bookmarks and your RSS Feeds to stay updated!

www.jasminestarblog.com

It's Coming.....!!

2007-05-15T09:51:00.000-07:00

I'm SO SUPER EXCITED to announce that my new blog will be debuting TOMORROW!! I'm quite happy with everything Brock has done for me and totally appreciative for the hook-up from my good friend and fabulous photographer, [b]ecker...but more on that tomorrow! ;)
Brock designed Jessica Claire's Blog, [b]ecker's blog, Image is Found's Blog, so when he agreed to design mine, I knew I was in good hands. Here's a sneak peek at what's in store... ;)

Erika and Ray : Engagement

2007-05-14T12:28:00.000-07:00

She extended her left index finger and pointed at a vacant group of red tables. That’s where I was sitting when I saw him first. As Erika walked through her high school campus, she recounted the instances she saw Ray from a distance. As a bold freshman, she approached one of Ray’s friends and asked him to give Ray her phone number. Ray was a senior and stud soccer player, so when Erika pursued him, she made her intentions known. A few months later, they walked through their high school as boyfriend and girlfriend.

It seems so weird walking through the quad, Erika said under her breath, The last time I was here my mother was un-enrolling me from school…pregnant girls weren’t allowed on campus. She blinked back tears. Tears of nostalgia, joy, hope. Erika and Ray’s lives boomeranged back to their point of origin together. After years of dating each other—and pushing through the good and bad times together—they’ll be committing their lives to each other this August.

It was a beautiful thing to witness Erika’s life come back full circle. The last time she walked through her high school campus, she was on her way out…with a baby in her belly. Last Saturday, Erika and Ray walked in together…with two sons as their shadows. They decided to have their engagement session at the first place they met, along the hallways and corridors where they fell in love.

I’m honored to be a part of their day and I’m excited to photograph their wedding at Coto De Caza and work along side Courtney Toney and Joyful Weddings and Events for Erika and Ray’s special day.

Here are a few of my favorites…

Erika and Ray's kids were SO well-behaved throughout the shoot...I decided the spend the last few minutes of our engagement session snaping a few pictures of the family

Happy Mother's Day, Mama!

2007-05-13T19:28:00.000-07:00

We sat next to each other in church this morning. She proudly sang with her eyes closed, basking in the adoration of her children. I held her right hand tightly and sang in hushed tones. I, apparently, did not inherent her vocal ability…I sing slightly better than my father, who’s sounds like Frosted Flakes’ Tony the Tiger when he sings.

Four years ago to the date, I sat in my car with JD and cried tears of desperation. Long sorrowful wails of one who is losing someone dear. We were buying last minute Mother’s Day gifts—decorative hats and beanies to cover my mother’s chemotherapy balding—but I truly believed it was our last holiday with her. I feared being alone on days like today. Days when children reflect and articulate how thankful they are to the woman who scraped the burned edges of morning toast, kissed band-aid covered fingers, and hid gas money in their wallet when she thought they weren’t looking. I feared never being able to truly show my mother how much I needed her. So I cried long sorrowful wails of one who is losing someone dear.

Today we sat next to each other in church and sang together. I held her tightly and prayed she knew how much I needed—no, how much I need--her. Later, we spent a lazy afternoon with the family enjoying lunch on an outside patio. Every year we make it a point to go around the table and say what we appreciate most about our mother. I try to put to my emotions into words, but I fear I do a lousy job. For everything she’s done for me, I’m thankful. For the woman I am, I’m indebted. For the wife I’ve become, I’m appreciative. And for the child I always desire to be…well, I’m working on that one ;)

Happy Mother’s Day, Mom!

I love you to the moon and back.

Melissa and Jackson : Engagement

2007-05-11T12:32:00.000-07:00

They were friends in college, sharing acquaintances, classes, and school leadership responsibilities. Melissa and Jackson, however, never shared a piece of their hearts with each other. Relationships with others overlapped and intersected, never leaving them both single at a pin-point in time. Then summer arrived.

One bright afternoon, while Jackson was escorting new students through their college campus, Melissa happened to cross his path. And as if a lampshade had been removed in a dark room, Jackson saw her in a new light. The way she smiled—turning her head slightly to the right and raising the corresponding shoulder—and the way she laughed. Her blue eyes pierced his heart, and he was smitten.

Shortly thereafter, the pair sat on Melissa’s couch while the television hummed softly in the background. Out of nowhere, she turned to Jackson and asked why they had never dated. Dumbfounded, Jackson replied she had always been in an outside relationship. Well, Melissa boldly asked, if I wasn’t in a relationship would that change things? Her blue eyes cornered him once again and pierced his heart.

A few years later, Jackson and Melissa strolled the streets of Pasadena and recounted their story. They laughed and squabbled over the details, but one thing remained for certain: They’re meant to be together. They began their relationship as friends and it budded into a lifelong commitment to each other.

Melissa and Jackson are best friends…best friends who happen to be in love with each other.

Here are a few of my favorites…

The Bride and Bloom Party

2007-05-10T08:34:00.000-07:00

On Monday night, JD and I headed to Cooper Design Space in Los Angeles for Bride and Bloom Magazine’s 1st Anniversary Launch Party. We had a great time meeting up with old friends and making new ones…but I don’t have any pictures to show because my not-so-subtle hints at getting a new point&shoot camera haven’t worked. Hmmm, maybe I need to change my strategy.

MEMO
TO: Everyone willing to buy me lavish gifts
FROM: Yours truly
RE: My future Canon SD800

I’d really like a digital camera. 10,000 bonus cool points for the person who succeeds in making my wish come true! ;)

In lieu of not having a camera, I stole a few pictures from Drew’s blog. The entire evening was absolutely awesome…of course one couldn’t expect anything less from Jeannie Savage and Details Details, event coordinator extraordinaire! Jeannie and Carolyn Chen from The Special Day worked together planning the party for Carol Poon, B&B’s Editor-In-Chief. The evening’s guest of honor was Preston Bailey and the entire party was decked out in his signature style…like I said, it was pretty amazing. And to make things even sweeter, Good and Gracious catered the event, and Peter Papadapolous was spinning on the ones and twos!

Here's a sample of Preston's funky, cool designs...

Drew and me...

From L-R: Lester Ip (whose wife, Vivian, runs the fabulous Paper Girl), JD (whose name tag read: JD Star...how funny! I bet he didn't think it was marrying into my middle name!!) and Chuck (Drew's husband)

Drew, me and Jeannie

Me and Lauren HIllary, Orange County's fearless PUG leader (I stole this picture from her blog too!)

I am so honored to have been a small part of such a phenomenal bridal magazine. Bride and Bloom is an awesome resource, so if you haven’t checked it out already, do so today!

It's Better to Give...

2007-05-09T16:26:00.000-07:00

We sat and laughed…and ate. Filet mignon, tiger prawns, sweet asparagus, lobster bisque, a vine-ripened tomato salad. The waves ebbed against the Hawaiian shore, as if rubbing elbows with someone rich and beautiful. One by one, the guests at my reception stood in the center of our Kahala Mandarin bungalow and delivered an impromptu speech, roasting JD and me on our wedding day. It was truly moving and unconventional…and everything I dreamed our wedding should be. As guests dried their eyes after each speech, and the dinner china was cleared, JD and I thanked our guests for joining us for our intimate destination wedding. Caught in the sheer gravitas of the moment, I cried uncontrollably. Everyone sitting around us had witnessed our relationship blossom into a marriage, and without them, we wouldn’t have been the couple standing before them pledging the rest of our lives to each other.

Just when I thought the evening couldn’t get any better, my amazing wedding photographer--David Jay--placed his laptop at the head of our grand table and displayed my wedding slideshow. The lights were dimmed as DJ’s work was displayed, and everyone was truly in awe of his talent and abilities. We simultaneously oohed and ahhed over each image and couldn’t believe how hard he worked to show us our wedding day from a photographic perspective. It was unbelievable.

Unbeknownst to me, David Jay was setting a standard I would soon emulate. As a wedding photographer, I prepare a wedding slideshow for my clients to show during their reception. While guests are eating dinner, JD and I are working on a slideshow to display later that evening. These slideshows have revolutionized the way my business has grown. During last Sunday’s wedding, the general manager of Yamashiro passed by the slideshow and asked to use the images for wedding publicity and an upcoming bridal show the restaurant is hosting. In addition to the images, I offered to provide 8x10 promo cards for their use. My good friend and talented photographer, Sara France designed promo templates for our online print lab, Pictage, and decided to share them with other photographers. They’re awesome resources to give to vendors because they’re specific to their needs and venue or business. I learned that giving back to industry peers yields ten-fold…not only is it better to give than to receive, vendors—much like anyone else—appreciate a gesture of kindness. I learned this little nugget of gold from [b]ecker…who learned it from watching his good friend Jim Kennedy (who runs a powerhouse photography business here in Orange County).

I’m blessed and amazed to see how willing so many photographers are to help each other. The foundation of my business is comprised of mortar from many other photography business cornerstones and I’m indebted to their knowledge. I hope this structure continues to feed off itself and challenge me to help others as much as I’ve been helped along the way. I’m so blessed to be surrounded by such an amazing group of people!!

**Here's a sample promo card I put together today...if you're a photographer and would like more information, contact the friendly people at Pictage and they'll hook you up!** :)

Ni and Reza : Wedding

2007-05-07T17:03:00.000-07:00

The sounds of Farsi filled the air, while the smells of Vietnamese spring rolls floated through the living room. A cacophany of voices filled the air while aunts, uncles, and cousins prepared for the tea ceremony. When the limo arrived, Reza’s Persian family debarked bearing gifts and passed through tunnel of Vietnamese greetings and hugs. As Ni descended the staircase as a tearful bride, Persian sugar rained down on her. When Ni and Reza saw each other for the first time as bride and groom, they held each other tightly while Ni cried tears of joy. On one side of the room stood one family looking directly across at the other, and the two souls in the center joined them in love.

Love transcends language. This was extraordinarily evident during Sunday’s wedding as neither family spoke English. Reza and Ni would flip back and forth between their native tongue and America’s lengua franca, filling in the translation gaps will laughter and smiles. A simple handshake, or hug, or three kisses on the cheek made up for traditional communication, but where there were no words, there was love. True and unadulterated love. A love that punctuated sentences and completed silent paragraphs.

JD and I were so moved to be part of such an amazing wedding day and heart-warming ceremony…we walked away from the day knowing that love has no tongue, but takes the form of a touch and a smile.

Here are a few of my favorites…

Ni was looking out from an upstairs window as her groom met the family outside...

Ni grandfather delivered a speech in Vietnamese, but at the very end looked down at a crumpled piece of paper and recited a sentence of congratulations in English...everyone cheered and this was his reaction...

As the group was walking toward the videographer, Ni stepped on her dress and started falling, but was carried along by an unknowing bridal party and groom...her face says it all! :)

After the tea ceremony, the wedding reception was held at the fabulous Yamashiro Restaurant in Hollywood Hills...it was awesome!!

A cool view of Los Angeles...

To see more of their wedding images, CLICK HERE for a slideshow!

**On a personal note, I want to thank Reza and Ni for making JD and me truly feel like family. Everything from the shrimp springs rolls silently passed our way, to the Vietnamese pastries, to the saffron rice and pitas, to the amazing limo ride and Persian music…everything felt like family. Thank you for forcing us to put cameras away at the end of the night and raise serpentine arms along side you and dance to Persian music like no one was watching. We loved every minute of it and thank you for becoming our friends!**

The Polo Update: Keeping the Dream Alive

2007-05-05T22:20:00.000-07:00

This afternoon I was greeted by JD at our front door with a cool little gift...although the Lakers are done for the season, I've just discovered that Polo is keeping the dream alive for next year! :)

JD discovered a dog boutique by our home and has become a canine shopper extraordinaire...we know we have issues. We've accepted that we may be a little crazy buying our dog organic food, bedazzled leashes, and a Lakers jersey, but like I said, we've accepted it ;)

Nancy and David : Engagement

2007-05-04T16:32:00.000-07:00

They speak softly to each other. As if each word is accentuated with a pillow and an Egyptian cotton duvet. That kind of soft.

As they stroll through the grassy knolls of the UC Irvine campus, David gently places his hand on the small of Nancy’s back and guides her along the red earth path. She looks up and bashfully laughs, tilting her head into his chest. Then they speak softly to each other.

They met in college—in an Earth Science class they both dreaded—and haven’t left each other since…two people finding love somewhere nestled between the chapters on the Mohorovivic Discontinuity and Clayey Dolomite. Deciding to visit the root of their love, Nancy and David requested their engagement session walking through their alma mater. Along the same paths they traversed together just a few years ago, they held hands, kissed, and laughed together. And spoke softly. Egyptian cotton soft. Nancy and David’s interaction—between themselves as well as outsiders—is a testament of their love. Often times it is believed the one with the loudest voice, the strongest opinion, will be heard…but their devotion and strength seems to stem from a docile part of their soul, inviting onlookers to partake in the joy they both share. Gently, happily, and softly.

I’m truly happy to be a part of their wedding day in June!

Here are a few of my favorites…

Chuck Taylor Lovin'

The man behind the bling! :)

To see more of their engagement pictures, CLICK HERE for a slideshow!

Meet Ginger

2007-05-03T21:19:00.000-07:00

Being a good friend is hard word. Being a good friend to someone who fears her mother is dying is saintly.

I have nothing but fond memories of my undergrad years at Whittier College, most in part to the group of fabulous friends I made. There was a group of about 12 of us who lived together in a college suite and we made our collegiate lives so much more enjoyable and joyful. We still stay in contact with each other—even though most of us have moved from California—so when one of my best friends announced she was planning to visit from her Hawaiian home, the remainder SoCal nucleus gathered together for a night of good food, laughter, and lots of catching up.

Two of my friends in particular, Lauren and Ginger, became pillars during the absolute worst time in my life. My mother was diagnosed with a rare form of brain cancer my junior year of college and it turned my world upside-down, inside-outside, and backwards. I was only 20 years old when my father said we had to start thinking about funeral arrangements. Needless to say, I was in such a state of mourning and inner turmoil…but my friends were always there for me. They came and celebrated my mother’s birthday when she was completely bald and going through horrible chemotherapy and I don’t think I can ever put into words how thankful I was to have them in my life.

When Ginger emailed a few weeks ago and asked if she could stay with me during her visit, I was more than happy to oblige. During her stay, we had an impromptu photo session…I tried my best, but I don’t think I could adequately capture her beautiful spirit and caring soul. I’m so blessed to have such wonderful people in my life at varying stages—who I was, who I am, and who I will become is merely an amalgamation of the imprints my friends have left on my heart.

Meesa and Andy : Engagement

2007-05-02T09:57:00.000-07:00

There just seems to be so many changes happening right now in our lives, Meesa said out loud standing on a busy Pasadena sidewalk. As people pushed by with brightly-colored shopping bags in tote, Meesa spoke briskly about moving to the east coast so her fiancé, Andy, can pursue his musical degree. After their wedding, they’ll remain in southern California for a few months, then make their way to Boston. Andy was accepted to one of the most prestigious musical schools in the country, and it’s no wonder because he’s very much the artist.

A few days prior to their engagement shoot, Andy took his new digital SLR and roamed the streets of Downtown Pasadena taking photographs and looking for cool locations. By the time he and Meesa were frolicking under the warm SoCal sun, he already scoped out spots for them to be photographed. As Meesa and Andy maneuvered their way through alleys, busy streets, and rolling green hills, the remained hand-in-hand. Through the different scenery and vibes, they were by each other’s sides smiling the entire time. I have a sneaking suspicion their behavior will transcend the noisy streets of Pasadena and drip over to the streets of Boston. No matter the changes life brings their way, they’ll be by each other’s sides, hand-in-hand.

Here are a few of my favorites…

I grabbed this shot as we were walking to another location...I thought it was funny because Andy loves Macs just as much as I do, so he decided to list Apple products on their wedding registry! I love it!! ;)

To see more of their engagement, CLICK HERE for a slideshow!

K&D: Sad Pizza, Happy Blogs

2007-04-30T08:51:00.000-07:00

The time has arrived, for this week’s Kiss and Diss…for the good, the bad, and the ugly…

This week’s DISS goes to my Los Angeles Lakers. You see, I love the Lakers. Looooove the Lakers. It’s a young team with so much budding talent--and coupled with the fact that Kobe Bryant is seriously the sickest player in the NBA--that there was no excuse to lose to the Phoenix Suns last night…except, well, Nash’s phenomenal performance. JD and I went to a local pizza parlor to watch the game, but we ended up commiserating over a half vegetarian, half meat-lovers pizza. It was a sad Sunday afternoon for us.

This week’s KISS goes to two wonderful people:
*Rhonda, from Our Wedding Plus, hosts a wedding planning blog for brides. She’s decided to invite guest bloggers to contribute to the blog as well to provide tips from industry professionals. She asked me to be the wedding photography blogger, so you can check out my first write-up HERE
*The last KISS of the week, goes to Brock Martin of Infidesign. Brock is not only one of the sweetest, professional, and bestest (don’t worry, I make up words all the time!) person to work with, he’s extra amazing because he’s putting the finishing touches on a new and cool CUSTOM BLOG for me! Yaaaaay! The blog will be debuting within the next week or so…and I’m totally excited for everyone to see it! ;)

Happy Monday!

Brittney and Ryan : Engagement

2007-04-28T16:17:00.000-07:00

If you’d ask Ryan what the truest way to a woman’s heart would be, he’d probably reply: With a scalpel.

Brittney saw Ryan during their first few weeks of medical school and was excited to know they were seated within close proximity of each other. Although never making an outright move, she was interested in Ryan from the moment she saw him, but was completely smitten after he offered her his seat in a crowded bar late one night. However, it wasn’t until the following January when Ryan realized he possessed a tool that changed the course of their lives together.

They were assigned to be partners one cold afternoon for a class project. With their scalpels, they had to shave a portion of each other’s arm skin. Brittney completed the task with just enough ease and execution to exude confidence, but Ryan wasn’t as smooth. Or maybe it was all part of his plan. As Ryan gently scraped her skin, it broke and began to lightly bleed. He apologized…and then offered to take her to dinner to make up for his mistake. Although he might not have been smooth with the scalpel, his actions were smoother than a baby's bottom! ;)

It’s funny how such a small tool brought two people together. The scalpel, with its thin razor and technical precision abilities, carved out a path for Brittney and Ryan to forever traverse. I'm honored to be documenting their special day.

They’ll be wed in June and they have beautiful wedding planned at the Hilton Waterfront Beach Resort in Huntington Beach. I can’t wait!

Here are a few of my favorites…

To see more of their engagement, CLICK HERE for a slideshow!

Carlie and Gabriel : Engagement

2007-04-26T15:41:00.000-07:00

When we first met, we clicked. Like a lock and key.

I fell in love with Gabriel and Carlie from the moment we met. Like long-time friends, we chatted about their careers, their wedding, and life. During our initial consultation, as Carlie animatedly described the Betsy Johnson dress she was planning to wear for their engagement shoot, Gabriel held her hand and stared at her like it was the first time he’d ever seen such a beautiful girl. A loving gaze, a hearty laugh at all the appropriate times. They’re perfect for each other.

As Gabriel and I spoke business and planned the logistics of the wedding day, Carlie listened to us, but focused on Gabriel’s every word. She’d intently follow his sentences—as if being strung along on an invisible string—and listened to him as if it was the first time she’d ever heard such eloquence. A loving gaze, a hearty laugh at all the appropriate times. They’re perfect for each other.

We met yesterday for their engagement shoot. I can’t put into words how flawlessly the day flowed. Carlie and Gabriel were like models in front of the camera—positioning themselves in the best light, curving their bodies into each other at the right angle, laughing gorgeously—so we spent most the evening just having a ball. Just as the engagement session was about to conclude, Carlie asked me, Do you think you’d mind photographing us at the beach…we want to get soaking wet! They didn’t have to ask twice!

Here are a few of my favorites…

To see more of their engagement session, CLICK HERE for their slideshow!

A special thanks to Dane Sanders for passing along this wedding to me! Dane, who's an awesome photographer (and a totally amazing pastor) will be marrying them...and then later join me in the photography fun for their reception! :)

Be sure to check back later for their slideshow!! ;)

They're Made for Walkin'

2007-04-25T21:15:00.000-07:00

You’re not wearing those again, are you?

JD asked this question, but already knew the answer. Yes. Yes, I was wearing my orange suede cowboy boots to my engagement session today. And? And JD hates those boots—he hates them with a hate reserved usually for puppy-kickers and Milli Vanilli. I, however, have worn the same boots to almost every shoot and love them. I love them for their tackiness, for their originality, and for their splash. They were a gift from my mother when she visited Italy and while I disliked them initially, they’ve grown on me.

I think the boots are ingenious. They are perfect for all types of terrain and ideal when I shoot on the beach because I don’t have to worry about sand creeping into the crevices of my toes. Ingenious!

Today, while on the shoot, my couple decided to splash around in the chilly water. Not wanting to miss each moment, I debated soaking them entirely. Just as I was going to submerge them, Carli (my future bride), screamed Noooo!. Apparently, she likes my style…and my orange suede boots.

So, it appears that JD will have to continue to see me don my chic shoes for a bit longer. They’re covered in sand and slightly wet, but they’re still alive and kickin’. And when JD asks why I’m still wearing them to engagement shoots, I’ll obnoxiously reply, “Because they’re made for walkin’…and that’s just what I’ll do…I’m gonna walk all over you!”

Lisa and Eric : Wedding

2007-04-23T17:53:00.000-07:00

So, are you ready for the kiss? That seemed to be the million dollar question of the day. Lisa and Eric saved their first kiss for their wedding and the big day had finally arrived. While Lisa finished dressing, her friends doted upon her every need, so the only thing for her to do was see herself in the mirror for the first time as a bride. Upon first glance, she apprehensively sucked in her breath and covered her highly-glossed lips with a petite hand. Oh my goodness, she whispered, I look like a Mexican Barbie! Everyone laughed hysterically and ushered her away from the mirror. So, are you ready for the kiss? With her eyes cast down, a smile crept onto her lips and she said, Yes, I’m ready…I’ve waited my entire life for this moment and it’s finally here.

I have very few words for this special couple. I felt so connected to their lives and love, as did everyone who witnessed their tearful ceremony. Their entire lives were spent walking along crooked paths, leading them ultimately to each other. Their families firmly believed they were mismatches—the typical apple and orange argument—but as they said their personal vows, their love rippled throughout the church sanctuary, proving their nay-sayers wrong.

And their first kiss? Magical. I cried behind my lens. I really, really cried. Two sincere and hopeful lives became one in that beautiful moment and I was honored to be able to document it for them.

Here are a few of my favorites…

After the ceremony, we headed to Los Angeles County Arboretum and Botanical Garden for their wedding pictures, but saved a good amount of energy for their bumpin' reception! ;)

If you’d like to see more of their wedding, CLICK HERE for a slideshow!

Joe Photo Fashion

2007-04-22T18:02:00.000-07:00

I saw him from a distance, his blond hair shimmering in the sun. As he drew closer, there was no denying it was him. Dressed to the nines in a tailored black suit, a perfectly-knotted, orange silk tie, and a white dress shirt (complete with orange accent-stitching, and silver cuff links), he offered a radiant smile. The kind of smile that belongs on a Colgate commercial. I, on the other hand, returned a smile that looked like it belonged to the 4th grader who forgot how to spell ‘pig’ during a spelling bee.

We embraced as soon as we were close enough and exchanged pleasantries. Joe Photo has been a photographer I’ve admired for quite a long time. I’m not quite sure how we initially met—perhaps via [b]ecker, or at a party Rita hosted—but he’s always been genuine and truly kind. We were both at St. John’s to photograph weddings, so it gave us a few minutes to catch up and chat. I, however, couldn’t help but feel foolish standing next to him. Foolish and unfashionable.

Jessica Claire has referred to Joe to as the best-dressed straight man she’s ever met. And, really, I couldn’t agree more. In fact, that’s all I could think about as the sun shone down on his perfectly pressed suit. And his Colgate smile. I really try to put forth an effort looking professional and presentable while I photograph a wedding, but comfort does play a lethal role in choosing a proper outfit (I’m on my feet for 8-10 hours…how cute can one really look?!). I thought I found a middle ground…that is, of course, until I saw Joe. His outfit was so nice that I felt the urge to stick my hand out and say, Alms…alms…alms for the tacky-and-unfashionable-photographers-of-America…alms…

It wasn’t until I read his blog—and saw the following pictures he photographed for David August—that I felt there was still a modicum of vogue-hope left for me:

*You can click here to see his complete post and pictures*

Although this blog entry has been more jest than anything else—and slightly exaggerated…I mean, the sun wasn’t solely shining on his perfect suit…but the Colgate smile…that’s totally true—I really feel like he raised the bar for me. I’ve always dressed nicely to weddings, but I’m going to try to be a little more feminine and classy. I suppose that’s what makes Joe an industry leader…his unique ability to encourage change without saying a word.

Totally Feelin' Blu

2007-04-20T11:15:00.000-07:00

So, I woke up to a pleasant surprise this morning….my face on the Blu Domain Blog!?!

Although I was reluctant and totally didn’t feel cool enough to be on their blog, I accepted the interview and had so much fun! A special thanks to Kailee and the amazing team at Blu…to be given a shout-out from such an awesome group of people was totally undeserved, but appreciated from the bottom of my heart.

If you want to read the article in its entirety, CLICK HERE!

Happy Friday!

Zack Arias and the One Light Workshop

2007-04-19T15:05:00.000-07:00

I have a new cell phone. And the alarm choices are horrific at best. The least painful of them all sounds like a pelican being choked by a snake. Have I heard a pelican being choked by a snake? Well, no. But I’m quite sure my alarm sounds like its audio twin.

At 5:25am on Tuesday morning, the pelican choked wildly. I rolled out of bed and into the shower. Shortly thereafter, my good friend Trista and I made our way to San Diego for Zack Arias’ seminar, the One Light Workshop. I was quite excited to meet Zack because he’s so incredibly talented and his style is unique…and he’s completely down-to-earth. Upon seeing him, he struck me as the quintessential photojournalist of my imagination—an aged newsie cap worn backward, an indie rock t-shirt, and a five-inch beard. He’s the kind of guy that can travel the world with a backpack, a camera, and a detached flash.

When we arrived at Sara France’s home, Zack greeted me warmly and made me feel extraordinarily welcomed during our initial introduction. And just when I thought he couldn’t get better, his slight accent made him near perfection. I mean, how can you not like a guy who pronounces “umbrella” as uhmmbrella, and says things like, This here picture is so sharp I can shave!

The entire day was spent learning more about photography, off-camera flash usage, and thinking outside of the box. The seminar was amazing and I’d recommend it to anyone interested. And even if you’re not interested, you should go just to meet Zack. He’s genuine, professional, slightly self-deprecating, and just a plain good person…all the things that’d make you wanna be his friend.

Here are a few shots from the workshop…

Because there was only one light source, the class only had two opportunities to work with it. The rest of the time was spent watching Zack work his magic. I shot a lot using only available light and was amazed at how fabulous the Canon 5D and the 85mm, 1.8 lens sucked in the ambient light. This shot was taken at 9pm on a nearly black street. While Zack was working with flash, this is the image I produced...but I had to hold my breath and not move the slightest! (1.8, 1600, 1/20)

At the end of the night, the class broke into groups and had to figure everything out on our own in setting up a lighting situation. Our group was fortunate to work with Shannon again (a budding musical artist in Los Angeles), but I have to admit it was really hard making my pictures look as cool as Zack's!! :)

At around midnight or so, we decided to take a group picture...unbeknownst to us, Sara has a timer on her lawn sprinklers...set to midnight or so. Here's a series pictures taken from Melissa Jill's blog...
BEFORE

DURING (isn't Pepper Nix's face just hilarious?!?)

AFTER

Lisa and Tim : Wedding

2007-04-18T11:37:00.000-07:00

The church bells in St. John’s majestic steeple sang loudly into the bright Orange County sky. Tim waited anxiously for his bride to arrive, but occupied his time making sure his groomsmens’ ties were properly tied and occasionally sifting through a white box labeled “Groomsmen Snacks”. His family and best friends basked in the warm sun while the church bells continued to sing.

Lisa arrived to the church in jeans, a t-shirt…and a veil. She walked into the church bridal room and her bridemaids immediately began preparing her wedding dress and slipping on her shoes. With the sounds of the organ filling the nave, the congregation rose to gaze upon the happy bride. With tears rolling down her cheeks, she kissed her father goodbye and fell into the arms of her future husband.

The rest of the day was spent dispersing rounds of warm hugs and sincere thank-you’s to their many guests. After a few rounds of funny, yet poignant, toasts, Tim and Lisa spent the evening dancing together and starting the first day of the rest of their lives together. And I had the honor of capturing their day.

Here are a few of my favorites…

Tim's groomsman was clawing humorously and saying, Tim, you're a tiger...you're a tiger...grrrrrrowl...

If you'd like to see their wedding in its entirety, CLICK HERE for a slideshow!

Also, a special thanks to Shyla for assisting me this wedding! :)

Taxes, Schmaxes

2007-04-16T21:48:00.000-07:00

Today was one of those days. You know, one of those days. Very long and very complicated. On the top of the things that made my day a little hairy, was the fact that I…um…had yet to pay my taxes. Now, if anyone can remember, I was
working on my taxes months ago! I did all that work to avoid exactly what I did today—stand in a verrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrry long line at the post office. JD actually emailed periodically throughout today to furnish no excuse for NOT getting them in on time:
I know you’re stressed, but just wanna remind you about the taxes….
The taxes! Email when you’ve taken them to the post office.
Please tell me you’ve gone already. Love you.
Jaz, it’s almost five...taxes?

Here’s a picture to prove I made it on time and I paid my country dues…I love being an American! :)

Because Polo was such a good sport waiting in the car while I was in the post office, we went to the park for a little bit. I just had to take a picture of him because he’s growing up so fast…Geesh, I feel so lame saying that!

Tomorrow I’m headed to San Diego for Zack Arias’ One Light Workshop and I’m super excited! I’ll be posting images from the seminar soon!

Danielle and Edwin : Engagement

2007-04-14T09:13:00.000-07:00

They seem very New York…ish. The pace of their walk, the speed of their highly educated prose, their style. But one thing they both miss about Orange County is the warm weather. The sun laid a golden blanket over the lake while Danielle and Edwin circumnavigated the park, and they paid close attention to each other. They’re the type of couple who just doesn’t hear what the other person is saying, but they truly listen to what’s said in the in-between moments.

They live in New York City—at least until Danielle finishes her MBA from Columbia University—but planned their wedding to be held in Orange County to be closer to their families. Amidst of the craziness of planning a wedding on the other side of the United States, Danielle and Edwin maintain the best sense of humor and magnetic personalities. I’m honored to be part of their wedding this May!

Here are a few of my favorites…
It was perfect weather to fly a kite!

This was Danielle’s reaction when Edwin took the flying reigns and the kite fell!

Apparently my clients think I’m funny…

Danielle loves photography. So much so, Edwin decided to buy her a Canon SLR a few months ago. I captured her in this moment…

…And this is the picture she produced! (If you want to see a few more of her personal pictures from the engagement session, Click Here)...

If you'd like to see their engagement session in its entirety, CLICK HERE

Fashionably Joyful

2007-04-12T19:55:00.000-07:00

I read an article about a man’s greatest joy. He described this joy in such a profound way that I had to read it three times over to make sure I gleaned what I should. I envied him. I envied his ability to make me read his words again and again, making me long for his ability to describe something so visibly.

His greatest joy? Seeing his words in print. His stories, his books and commentaries were the driving force in his life. When he picked up a book and saw words belonging to him, it made him feel alive. No, it made him feel invincible. For the first time in his life, he existed.

At first I thought his explanation was a brightly colored, imaginative narrative, but I think I tasted a little from the chalice from which he drank.

This afternoon, I walked into Barnes and Noble, I picked up the latest copy of Bride and Bloom Magazine. I nervously flipped through the pages until I found my voice. The proof of my existence.

There, on page 49 of the Summer 2007 edition, you’ll find me. I worked on an article for the magazine a while back and seeing it in print is the coolest emotion ever. For a minute, I wanted to turn to the elderly gentleman reading next to me and say, Hey, mister..yes, you…this is ME! I’d manically smile, and he’d respond by nodding his balding head, and turn back to his Walter Cronkite autobiography. But I did none of this. I just waited until I could show JD the magazine over dinner.

The 15-page article is a fashion write-up describing seven types of brides and various wedding accoutrements befitting of their personalities. I’m incredibly thankful for this experience and indebted to the people who helped along the way. A special thanks goes to Rita Hermes for allowing me to work along side her for this project and Carol Poon, Editor-in-Chief of Bride and Bloom, for allowing me to contribute to such an amazing magazine. From the bottom of my heart, thanks for allowing my words to take life.

Woohoo...that's my name! :)

K&D: Good Read, Good Grief

2007-04-11T16:08:00.000-07:00

It's time--yet again--for the weekly installment of KIsses and Disses!

This week’s KISS goes to an author by the name of James McBride. I recently finished his book, The Color of Water and it’s just fantastic. I mean, it’s so well written, yet simply stated. It’s autobiographical in nature and based on his mother’s life and his experiences being raised as a black man in Harlem by a Jewish mother. It’s a story about life, strength, and perserverence…and it’s truly moving. If you’re looking for a good read, pick up this book because it will enlighten you in more ways than one.

This week’s DISS goes out to none other than yours truly. I totally need to work on my form. As in photography form. I might have mentioned before that JD and I try to take the ugliest pictures possible of each other while we’re photographing a wedding. It’s dry humor, but I get a kick out of it every time I download his pictures. Until last week…when I saw what appeared to be a flaccid moose prostrate on the grass. Moose = Me. And it was so ugly! I laughed hysterically, then I nearly slapped myself for looking like an idiot in public.

It wasn’t until I received an email from David Bornais that I thought the picture should make its blog appearance. Because I have a dry sense of humor. David Bornais is a French photographer who is attending David Jay’s photography seminar in Paris later this summer and stumbled across my blog. He emailed asking about this photo from Alison and Matt’s wedding:

I couldn’t help but laugh to myself because as I was getting the above picture, I looked like this:

Wow, do I look pathetic or what?! If he knew how foolish I looked while taking that picture, I'm not so sure he would have trusted my advice! So, yup, this week’s DISS belongs all to me! ;)

Janelle and Greg : Engagement

2007-04-09T11:29:00.000-07:00

The pine trees lined the small dirt path, and the sounds of crunching twigs speckled the air as their sandals passed over them. Janelle would often times look back at the camera and proffer a coy smile—a Cheshire grin that betrayed knowledge of the lens, but still loved on Greg as if no one was watching. Janelle jumped on Greg’s back unannounced, had him twirl her at a moment’s notice, and cracked jokes to make them fall over laughing. Apparently, she knew what type of pictures she wanted.

Right now she’s playing music in her head and pretending she’s on one of your slideshows, Greg said as she nuzzled her face in his broad chest with embarrassment. I came to find out that Janelle watched quite a few engagement slideshows before her session, so she came prepared. Greg lovingly poked fun at Janelle and she threw her head back in hearty laughter.

The ironic thing, however, was that it was in the moments Janelle and Greg forgot about the camera—forgot about me, my imposition on their date, and the slideshow—that yielded their true personalities and passion for each other. They’re two of the most sweetest and genuine people I’ve been blessed to work with and I’m excited for their wedding this September.

Here are a few of my favorites…

As I stepped away to change a lens, I saw Janelle looking at Greg in a way that conveys her sincerest love for him...a smile, a longing, with a splash of amusement...

If you'd like to see more of their engagement session, CLICK HERE for a slideshow!

Happy Easter!

2007-04-08T20:58:00.000-07:00

Just wanted to wish everyone a Happy Easter! Every spring I look forward to spending Easter with my family and friends...and today was no exception. This evening was especially nice because JD's family had a special Easter/birthday dinner for me, complete with my favorite strawberries-n-cream birthday cake aaaaand a new Isabella Fiore purse. Woohoo! It was a totally undeserved, but oh-so-appreciated ;)

Here are a few pictures from my birthday (JD, Polo, and I went to the park after my soiree at Burke Williams), and we'd like to wish everyone a Happy Easter and thank God for His many blessings...

27 Good Fridays

2007-04-06T09:41:00.000-07:00

I’m going to keep this short today.

I’m so incredibly thankful. Today is Good Friday, but it’s also my birthday. On this day, thousands of years ago, Jesus Christ sacrificially died to give me life. For this, I am so thankful and extraordinarily happy to share this special day with someone who is my everything.

Today JD and I will spend the day relaxing (I suspect Burke Williams is on the birthday itinerary!), eating all of my favorite food…and not counting calories. Because food is fat free on your birthday, didn’t you know?

Tonight we’ll go to church, then go out for a delicious dinner at one of my favorite restaurants. It’s a simple birthday, but I’m a simple girl. A simply thankful girl.

The Art of Blogging

2007-04-04T20:25:00.000-07:00

A few days ago, my good friend [b]ecker launched his ‘new and tasty’ blog. If you haven’t checked it out by now, you totally should. His work is fabulous, but beyond that, his personality shines past the sleek interface and allows the viewer to connect. It’s awesome! Here’s a link: the [b]log.

I’ve been thinking about blogs lately and their dynamic within the art world. During the days of Romantic art, artists like Rafael and DaVinci surrounded themselves with colleagues to discuss their work and engage in dialogue to further push their movement. Similarly, Picasso and Matisse—although widely considered each other’s nemesis—surrounded themselves with peers who helped them strive for better work (and outdo what the other person had just produced!). Often times, these groups were based on geographic proximity, more than anything else.

So much yet so little has changed since then. I consider blogs to be the new forms of dialogue, albeit heavily unidirectional, and have formed pseudo art groups, if you will. Nothing will substitute conversations in realtime, but blogs are truly pushing this industry in the right direction! I’ll be the first to admit that I’m a blog-a-holic. I began reading blogs while in college and it’s become a leisurely past time for me. Not only do I subscribe to a plethora of photography blogs, I subscribe to many others related to law, literature…and, yes, celebrity gossip ;)

I know I can’t list every photography blog I visit, but here are a few I frequent…each author strikes a chord with me for a myriad of reasons—inspiration, humor, technique—so I hope you find some of them just as amazing as I do!

Here are a few links (in no particular order)…
Gary Fong
David Jay
Mike Colon
Liana Lehman
Jessica Claire
[b]ecker
Boutwell Studio
Image Is Found
Jessica Strickland
Holritz
Fred Egan
Shyla
Amelia Lyon
Trista Lerit
Cameron Ingalls
Amy Nave/Albumesque
Bumatay
Jose Villa
Jesh De Rox
Anne Ruthmann
Bebb blog
Sara France
Luke Walker

Okay, that’s quite a list! I’m quite sure I missed a few, so I’ll update this list as it comes to mind. Again, there are many more blogs I visit, but these just kinda always stick out to me. They're my proverbial think tank…and though some don’t even know I exist, they’ve left an indelible impression. So, thank you.

Lastly, I’ve got to give a little love to Blu Domain’s Blog. It’s a totally fun and eclectic mix of photos, new photographers, and Kailee’s newest man crush. Be sure to check it out! Speaking of Blu, I had the pleasure of meeting the lovely people who run the organization on the WPPI Tradeshow Floor. I stole the following pictures from their blog...here I am with the Bebb's (Jen Bebb won the Blu Party Bowling Tournament...I think I'm gonna ask for lessons!)

And this funky picture is from the Blu Bowling Party...with the gorgeous and talented Jessica Claire and Sara France...and, yes, it sure was HOT in The Palms Hotel Suite! :)

Alison and Matt

2007-04-02T23:49:00.000-07:00

The music pouring from the iPod could be heard from the street. A little Country, and little Pop. The make-up artist looked at the magazine picture Alison had previously cut out as a point of reference and bridesmaids occasionally passed by them, oohing and ahhing over the bride’s metamorphosis. The windows and door were kept wide open and a light Palm Springs breeze meandered through the house. Laughter could be heard outside from the patio table. Laughter mixed with a Country and a little Pop.

Matt and his groomsmen readied themselves at the Monterey Country Club, just as the wedding coordinators and florists prepared for his wedding. Perhaps it was the warm sun that made desert calming, but as the wind blew through the palm trees, one could close her eyes and feel love.

Matt and Alison met each other while playing the field. Literally. Both avid soccer players, they met while playing in Los Angeles and fell in love shortly thereafter. Documenting their vows and commitment to each other was extraordinarily precious because they made me feel like I was part of their homespun network of friends…like I was just a friend roaming around with a camera. I LOVE when this happens! Their gorgeous wedding was in Palm Springs and I was truly honored to be a part of their day. A special thanks to Alison’s sister-in-law, Shannon Lott, for finding my blog and recommending my work…it’s the biggest compliment when an industry colleague refers my services, so I appreciate her kindness and trust.

Here are a few of my favorites…

I couldn't help but laugh when I saw Alison pull out her wedding shoes from an Adidas backpack...you can take the girl off the soccer field, but you can't take soccer outta the girl! :)

The hair and makeup was done by Maria from Salon Sessions (a home salon for America's Next Top Model) in Pasadena. She's awesome!

The following two shots were captured by JD...how adorable is the flower girl?!

Apparently the flower girl found a new use for her Dora the Explorer stickers during the toast! :) JD captured this shot...

To their wedding in its entirety, CLICK HERE for a slideshow!

K&D: Bruins, Albums, and the Hook-Up

2007-04-01T22:25:00.000-07:00

Well, it’s time for yet again this week’s Kisses and Disses…com’on…I know you love ‘em! ;)

This week’s Diss goes out to UCLA’s Basketball Team for losing terribly to Florida yesterday. I’ll always LOVE my Bruin ballers…buuuut, losing twice to the same team back-to-back just kills me! And to make things worse, JD was participating in a NCAA Tournament pool and when he was choosing his favored teams, I practically forced him to pick the ‘old faithful Blue n Gold because I believed--believed!--they were gonna take the whole thing. I shot a wedding yesterday (I’ll be posting that tomorrow!) and the groom was a fellow Bruin, so we were staying atop of the score…sadly :( I left the reception with a gray cloud over my head. I just couldn’t believe the loss. Not only do I have no one left to cheer for, but JD can no longer win the pool!

This week’s Kiss goes out to Leather Craftsmen for simply being wonderful. I wanted a new sample album to display at A Soolip Wedding (click here to read more about it), and I really didn’t think my order would be filled in such a short amount of time. I emailed Ira (click here to read more about his amazingness) and begged for a minor miracle. Well, he made a phone call to Carol and I followed up with an email and…BAM…I had a new spankin’ album! I love it! Everyone there is amazing and I’m happy to know my clients are in good hands. On a sidenote, I ran into Ira and Bobby, Leather Craftsmen’s President, at [b]ecker’s 7th Annual Las Vegas Party and I was smitten with how truly fabulous they are. They’re even better than how everyone describes them, so if you get the chance, go out of your way to say hi.
**Oh, and, Bobby…if you ever read this, you told me that you’d take care of whatever I needed if I just let you know…well, I’m letting you know now that I’d sure love a few free sample albums to show prospective clients…you know, just so I can rave some more about how great you are! ;)**

Mark and Kim

2007-03-31T08:29:00.000-07:00

Don’t get me wrong, Kim said as she was talking to her hair stylist, I love being around everyone, but I just wish Mark was here with me…he’s the best companion.

Kim sat in between two mirrors and her reflection bounced in many different directions, a reflection that embodied eager anticipation to see her future husband. Occasionally she’d take a few deep breaths and smile afterward…the wedding day had finally arrived.

Mark and Kim spent their afternoon together under the golden sun and azure sky sharing their vows with each other and later entered the reception ballroom to the sounds of cheering and applause. The maid of honor gave a heartfelt speech and everyone clinked glasses, saying Cheers! along the way. The best man, Mark’s brother, delivered a beautiful speech and explained how Kim became a major part of their family when she helped the family get through the loss of Mark’s father a couple years ago. Tears were shed, but were quickly replaced by three raucous congratulatory chants in Japanese, Bonzai!...Bonzai!...Bonzai!

Mark and Kim, thanks for sharing your day with me…Congratulations and Bonzai! ;)

Here are a few of my favorites…

Kim explained that Mark wanted to get her a special wedding gift, so he picked out her wedding jewelry on his own and surprised her with it...

To their wedding in its entirety, CLICK HERE for a slideshow!

Special thanks to Drew for coming out and helping me shoot before JD got to the wedding...I can always count on that girl!

Infidelity

2007-03-29T19:13:00.000-07:00

I’ve always considered myself a good girl. A loyal girl. Monogamy is something precious and the cornerstone of a healthy relationship. I’ve always thought that nothing could come between JD and me, but another male has entered my life and now my love is torn in two. I know this blog isn’t the place to talk about love triangles, but I need to come clean.

When I landed at LAX—coming home from WPPI—JD pulled curbside and jostled my bags into the trunk. Then I saw him. Not JD, I saw him. The thing I’ve always desired in a relationship finally came to fruition…he sat in the passenger seat and looked at me with gazing, beady eyes, licked his lips and shook the hair on his chest. Yes, he’s hairy. As in covered in hair.

I’ve wanted a dog for months. No, years. I’ve wanted a dog for years. I’m home a lot on my own and it can get lonely, so I’ve begged JD to open his heart (and…ahem…his wallet) and buy me a furry friend. Well, it looks like my waiting days are over. I couldn’t be more excited!!!

I was practically in tears bringing him home because he’s the most precious dog in the world. No, really, he’s the cutest thing ever. Like dog model cute. And he’s a canine genius. Sure, he runs into walls and can’t jump off our bed, but behind his perky ears lay the next big thing to challenge National Geographic’s, The Dog Whisperer.

Today we spent the entire day together running errands—the people at the Canon Service Center in Irvine just loved him, the office workers at the post office cooed over his docile posture as he lay in my arms, and the baristas at Jamba Juice threw in a free wheat grass shot for me…people, the dog is my new lucky charm.

So while my monogamous days are over, JD is okay with my new dispersal of love. I mean, with one look from this puppy, he’d melt anyone’s stone heart.

Unfaithfully Yours,
Jasmine*

WPPI Update

2007-03-27T11:11:00.000-07:00

Whew. I'm tired. Things have been go-go-go since I arrived, but that's pretty much how WPPI goes every year, right?
Sunday night, after a full day of Shootsac-ing, a group of us headed over to Sara France, Lauren Hillary, and Anna Costa's "Super Swanky Soiree" at the Bellagio. The room was packed with people, but it was great meeting new people and catching up with old friends. Here's a picture of me with my very good friend and personal wedding photographer, David Jay

I didn't bring my own camera (can you believe I don't own a point-and-shoot camera?!?...hint, hint...my birthday's coming up soon!), so I snagged pictures from DJ's and Liana's blogs.
One of things I like best at WPPI is rooming with new people...Liana and I have been roomies for pretty much everywhere I've gone, but this year it was nice to meet Roseanna and Chanel...

Yesterday I helped out Liana with her WPPI presentation--which went super well!--then headed off to help Mike Colon for his tradeshow floor presentations, then ended my day helping Jessica with the Shootsac again. In the evening, Liana and I went to the Champagne Shootout to assist Mike with the shoot and because his model didn't show up, he had to use his new intern (and our roommate), Roseanna, to model for the demonstration. Liana and I ran back to our room to grab a few outfits for her to change into...and we also grabbed her bikini! :) At first Mike was shocked--literally--when she stepped onto the stage in her tiny two-piece, but things worked out totally well!

If Mike wins again this year, Liana and I decided to take all the credit! :D

After the Shootout, we went to the BluDomain party with Mike. The party was held at the Palms Hotel in the Bowling Suite and everyone had a great time! There was this cool photobooth at the party, so of course we had a little fun...

I'll try to post more, but I'm off again!

Viva Las Vegas

2007-03-25T18:57:00.000-07:00

Well, I'm in Las Vegas for WPPI until Thursday...woohoo! My internet access is limited, but I'll be staying on top of it as much as possible.

Today I hit the ground running! Jessica Claire, [b]ecker, Marisa, Keats, and myself totally turned the Shootsac booth upside down. Jessica's bags were the hottest item on the conference room floor and the feedback was amazing...I mean, they're so cute, how could they NOT be getting rave reviews?!

Wish me luck while I'm out here...I'm not a gambler in any way, but there's this HUGE slot machine that I have to pass everyday in the Paris Hotel lobby that beckons me the way sirens used to lure drunken sailors out to sea. It sings to me and the thought of hitting one big win is enticing! :)

Melissa and Josh : Engagement

2007-03-24T10:06:00.000-07:00

We drove onto the San Pedro Air Force base as tall palm trees extended their heads toward the blue sky. After previously submitting my name and personal information for a federal background check, Melissa and Josh were able to get me onto the base for their engagement photos. Walking through the lush green parade grounds, Melissa recounted how she met Josh. Having earned her degree from Stanford University, she procured a job with the Air Force…where Josh serves as an engineer and consultant. During a company BBQ, she saw Josh sitting on a bench and approached casually. Here’s where the story has two diverging accounts…
1. Josh says Melissa pursued him and couldn’t stay away from him.
2. Melissa says Josh was pleasant during their BBQ conversation. A short time later, he asked her out. She vacillated just long enough to make him a little nervous, then accepted his invitation.
For some reason, I believe Melissa. And this is not only because Josh told me he was a professional model…and a professional soccer player…before becoming an engineer ;)

We spent the afternoon laughing until our sides ached and that’s when I realized what made Josh and Melissa’s relationship so special: Their joy for life seeps out from their buoyant personalities and spreads to those around them. Even though Melissa has battled health complications and surgeries, Josh’s ability to make her laugh is truly what makes their love apparent.

I’m truly honored to be a part of the totally awesome wedding they have planned at Shutters on the Beach in August…I can’t wait!

Here are a few of my favorites…

To see their engagement session in its entirety, CLICK HERE for a slideshow!

Ni and Reza : Engagement

2007-03-22T10:08:00.000-07:00

The park sat still while raindrops danced lightly on flower petals. They were standing close to each other trying to keep warm—she in her satin black dress and he in his tailored suit. Reza and Ni smiled and waved from a distance. The minute Ni and I were within close proximity, she reached out to give me a big hug. She may be small, but she’s a big hugger. We had never met before, but she was sweet, genuine and completely sincere. And, Reza, well he’s like chocolate bit at the end of a Drumstick Ice Cream Cone…a total treat. They’re so fun to be around and we spent the overcast morning laughing and brightening each other’s gray day.

Six years ago, Reza and Ni met in college and fell in love. It’s a pleasure watching the two of them interact because even in the silent moments, they’re communicating. Through touch, a light breath of air, anything. The thing I noticed the most throughout the shoot was that Reza took time to make sure Ni was in a favorable light and positions…something tells me this goes beyond the realm of photography and into their personal lives as well.

Here are a few of my favorites…

To view their engagement session in its entirety, CLICK HERE for a slideshow!

Colonel Ironarm

2007-03-21T12:34:00.000-07:00

Ah yo fahnilly done with dem two? The man stood just off the path and asked me this question as if we had been friends for years. He spoke with a southern twang, as if the words from Zora Neale Hurston’s book Their Eyes Were Watching God sprung up off the pages and drifted into the cold air that stood between us. I looked around to make sure he was speaking to me. I had just finished an engagement session and parted ways with the couple, and while I noticed the homeless man watching me throughout the shoot, I didn’t think he would stop and talk to me.

Yes, I’m finally done with them! We had such a great time.
Then, out of nowhere, he asks, Yo wahna be mah screen savah? Here, lit meh sho yo… The man reached into his pocket and pulled out a cell phone. He asked again if I wanted to be his screen saver. I agreed only on the condition that I’d be able to take his picture as well.

So there we stood. Two strangers from very different worlds capturing each other through the same medium.

In his shopping cart were blankets and clothing and what I assume are the only things belonging to his identity. I asked him his name. Mah name’s Colonel Ironarm, he said with a proper salute, leaving his right arm diagonally extended just long enough for me to know he had plenty experience saluting. He went onto to explain that he served in the Navy during Vietnam and, he guesses, fell onto some hard times when he got back to the States. We spoke for a few minutes. Once the rain began to fall a little harder, I said I better get going. I fished for whatever cash I had and told him to get something hot to eat. He thanked me profusely then said, Ah nevah got yo name…was yo name? I told him my name and said it was honor to shake a man’s hand who defended this country with honor.

When I finally got to my car, I shook the rain droplets from my hair, but had a harder time shaking off the sense of melancholy that rested so heavily on my shoulders.

I usually keep this blog politics free, but I just want to remind people the next time you see a soldier or a serviceman, be sure to thank them. Regardless of the issues belying the war in Iraq, there are women and men who are fighting to protect and reserve our freedoms to both support and oppose the war. What a beautiful thing.

Colonel Ironarm, even though you’ll never read this, thank YOU for your service to this country…

Lauren and Kyle: Engagement

2007-03-20T06:40:00.000-07:00

He’s always smiling when she speaks. She doesn’t betray her knowledge of his happy gaze, but willfully basks in his adoration. Lauren and Kyle met in high school, but have spent their college years thousands of miles apart—San Diego State and Notre Dame respectively. As they walked along the Laguna Beach coast, Lauren spoke and Kyle continued to smile. The gray sky didn’t damper their moods, but, rather, incited a playful nature and the two of them hugged, dipped, and walked along the shore.

They’ll be married in July and I’m excited to be a part of their day!

Here are a few of my favorites…
Something tells me that with a pretty face like hers, Lauren is a girl who gets what she wants from Kyle! ;)

I’ve been shooting in Laguna Beach for a while now and I’ve always wanted to shoot at this cool wall JD pointed out a few months ago. After our beach shoot, Lauren and Kyle awesomely agreed to go to the wall and have a little fun…

To view their engagement session in its entirety, CLICK HERE for a slideshow

A Soolip Wedding 2007

2007-03-18T20:46:00.000-07:00

I can't believe how happy I am today. And for more than just one thing...
Last Thursday I had a case--a horrible case--of food poisoning and it lasted pretty much until early this morning. I was desperately hoping my sickness would recede today because I was invited to showcase my work at A Soolip Wedding Bridal Event in Los Angeles at Social Hollywood. Angelica, owner of the wonderful Green Weddings, asked me to display my work at her booth and I was extremely fortunate to do so. I had the pleasure of meeting SO many fabulous vendors, colleagues, and prospective clients...it was a truly spectacular event! I took my camera along to document portions of my day and while I wish I was able to snapsnapsnap away, I was only able to sneak away for a few minutes at a time.

Here are a few of my favorites...
E! and the Style Network covered the event. Jessica, a stunning Style Network host, interviewed Angelica at our table...

Wanda Wen, owner and creative director of Soolip, went above and beyond carefully crafting the gorgeous event...here's the Soolip table

Yummm...the Vanilla Bake Shop put together a pretty spead of delicious cupcakes

As a key sponsor of the event, Los Angeles Wedding Magazine spread a little love...

The lovely ladies at Jo Malone had a beautiful set-up and set the entire room ablaze with intoxicating scents and fragrances

A classic and stunning table from BBJ Linen

I couldn't stop taking pictures of this table...I loved it! Laurel and Party designed it and the lovely Carissa from jl.designs.com, provided the floral arrangements

Probably the most breathtaking table of the event belonged to Asiel Design. Everything was over.the.top. Literally. Everything under a pink trellis was spectacular--the hanging flowers, the lanterns, the vines--and the AD crew was just as kind and warm as could be...

To see more images, CLICK HERE for a Soolip slideshow!

If you'd like to see other pictures of the event, be sure to check out Jules Bianchi's Blog. She was lucky enough to walk through the event as a spectator...who just so happens to be a wonderful photographer and good friend of Wanda's :) Her stuff is awesome, so check it out!
A special thanks to Angelica for the invitation, to the many new friends I made, and to the beautiful brides who took the time to get to know me better.

Kisses and Disses

2007-03-15T18:27:00.000-07:00

For the past day and a half I've been battling my blogger account to post images. I've been SO frustrated and because Blogger has the support staff comprised of what I assume are cantankerous chimpanzees, they've been no help. So, today I've finally been able to post. In lieu of this debacle, I'm starting a new weekly blog entry entitled Kisses and Disses. Every week I'll spread a lil' lovin' to people are deserve it and a lump of coal to those who make my life harder. Or something like that.

This week's Disses go to:
*Blogger, for driving me nuts the past couple of days; and
*The Oil Companies of the United States. People, please...I've spent a small nation's yearly GDP on gas lately and it's no fun. I saw a special on CNN this morning and a reporter cited that Germans who drive slowly along the autobahn save on gas. So I tried it out. Not on the autobahn, but on the 5 freeway this afternoon. I lasted all of 26 seconds. At this rate, I'll be buying a mule or a moped in the next few weeks.

This week's Kisses go to:
*JD. Yup, he just had to get props because I was lucky enough to have him join me at my engagement shoot on Sunday. He's an awesome assistant and second-shooter...and he carries my bag for me. Need I say more?! :)
I snapped this picture of him and I love it. It embodies both my passions--photography and JD--in one moment and it makes me thankful to have him by my side.

Nick and Julie: Engagement

2007-03-12T22:06:00.000-07:00

Nick sat across the dinner table and said, I knew she was 'the one' when we were 17. After meeting in science class during high school, Nick and Julie have remained by each other's sides through eight years of college, new nieces and newphews, passing of a parent, earning a Master's Degree, and buying a new home together. They've managed to fall into each other's footsteps and finish each other's sentences--with Julie painting each thought with brightly colored words, and Nick calmly getting to the point. Their love has withstood what others might consider set-backs and faced them together, trusting that through it all, they'll get through life hand-in-hand.

We met in Malibu yesterday at their favorite spot and spent the hottest day of California's winter along the Pacific Coast. They have a stunning wedding planned in Santa Barbara this June and I can't wait to spend the weekend with their amazing families.

Here are a few of my favorites...

To see their engagement session in its entirety, CLICK HERE

Meet Shyla

2007-03-10T20:26:00.000-08:00

When she first asked, I wasn't sure what she exactly meant. Her words flew past my ears like darts, missing my mind and landing on an unbeknownst dartboard. I listened to her voicemail message again and again, making sure I understood what she was asking. With my eyebrows on the verge of knotting, JD asked what was wrong. I turned to him with a petrified look and said, Shyla wants me to take her headshots.

Shyla and I have been friends for almost a year, after initially meeting while assisting Mike with his seminars. We both drove to Las Vegas last year for WPPI with Mike and his wife Julie, so she got to know how crazy I am after riding six loooooong hours with no escape :) Since then, we've watched our businesses grow and remained close.

When she called requesting headshots, my first reaction was Oh.my.god.she's.a.photographer?!?! And then my second reaction was Oh.my.god.she's.a.photographer?!?! There's a true honor in photographing a peer, but with this honor comes performance anxiety. However, standing in the warm glow of the sun this afternoon, we had a ball hanging out and having fun. Be on the look out for her new website coming out later this week!

Here are a few of my favorites...

Happy Birthday, JD!

2007-03-08T20:51:00.000-08:00

From last Monday until yesterday, I’ve been walking around our place talking like the boxing announcer from WWF—the one that says Let’s get ready to Ruuummmmmmble!. In a baritone voice, I’d be washing dishes or editing last weekend’s wedding pictures and out of no where, I’d hollar to JD, It’s your Biiiiiirrrrrrrrrrthday Exxxtraaavaaaagaaaanzaaaa! Yesterday was JD’s birthday. And because I think only celebrating the day of his birth is quite limiting, I legislated what I call Biiiiiirrrrrrrrrrthday Exxxtraaavaaaagaaaanzaaaa! to show my appreciation. For three days, I was on my best behavior, treated JD out to dinner every night, let him eat all the sweets he could ever dream of, and didn’t nag him about throwing out the trash. Okay, this last part is a lie. I did nag about the trash, but I did it nicely ;)

I wanted to do something extra special for JD this year. He is the most amazing, selfless, giving, patient, and long-suffering man who has ever graced this earth—okay, maybe Jesus Christ has a leg up, but JD’s at His heels. I know I probably say this way too much on my blog, but, really, I can’t help it. I truly don’t know how we ended up together, but I thank God for having someone like him by my side everyday for the rest of my life.

On Tuesday morning, as I was being extra nice by ironing his shirt in the laundry room, I belted out, It’s your Biiiiiirrrrrrrrrrthday Exxxtraaavaaaagaaaanzaaaa! JD poked his head inside the room and politely said, Jasmine, that’s getting a little annoying already. Undeterred, I looked around at my invisible audience sitting just outside my laundry room boxing ring and said, I can’t be annoying…I’m the one planning your Biiiiiirrrrrrrrrrthday Exxxtraaavaaaagaaaanzaaaa!

I knew I had a little leeway in JD’s annoyance barometer…he knew I had something planned for that evening, but couldn’t figure things out. By the time he got home from work, I was dressed and handed him an outfit as he walked through the doors. He quickly changed and I blindfolded him. Okay, so it wasn’t really a blindfold (it was actually one of my long-sleeved shirts…how ghetto!), but it worked. Little did he realize that I planned for both our families to meet us at one of JD’s favorite restaurants, Wild Fish in Newport Beach. It was a total surprise, so when he saw everyone there to celebrate his birthday, he was moved. No, he was touched. No, let’s be real here…the guy was putty in my hands. JD was so appreciative of my planning the party, he would’ve nominated my canonization there on the spot if he could. I ordered couture cupcakes from Wonderland Bakery, and when he saw them sitting under the bouquet of balloons, he just about melted. Putty, people…the man was sheer putty ;)

As the appetizers were rolled out, I asked the table if I’d be able to say a prayer. As everyone bowed their heads, I tried to begin, but nothing came out. Nothing. All I could do was sit in my chair and cry. All I wanted to do was publicly thank God for such an amazing husband and best friend, but I was so overwhelmed I couldn’t. After a few seconds, I croaked a simple prayer—nothing of the eloquence I had hoped for—but when two people love each other enough, words are often unnecessary.

JD, for everything I tried to say over the past three days but couldn’t, I just want to say Happy Birthday and I Love You.

Joyful Weddings and Events

2007-03-06T15:34:00.000-08:00

As I was editing pictures from Deanna and Tommy's wedding today, I decided to pull a few detail shots and give a shout out to Courtney and Darcie from Joyful Weddings and Events. I've worked with Courtney in the past and every time I hear she's coordinating a wedding I'm shooting, I'm stoked because I know the event will be orchestrated beautifully. Darcie is Courtney's associate and planned the entire wedding before passing off the reigns last Sunday. Nothing was left unnoticed between this duo and I hope my photos do their work justice...I'll be working with Joyful Weddings and Events for quite a few weddings this year and and I'm delighted!

If you're a bride and haven't procured a planner yet, give Courtney a call! :)

Here are a few details from Sunday's wedding...

Because Tommy's in the Air Force, every table was identified by a type of jet or plane...the sweetheart table was nothing less than Air Force One

Deanna and Tommy

2007-03-05T20:18:00.000-08:00

It happened over New Year's Eve and just three months later, Tommy and Deanna were committing their lives to each other. Tommy asked for Deanna's hand in marriage--even though he was stationed in Arkansas as part of the United States Air Force--and both families came together to support the evident love the couple shares.

While the bridemaids zig-zagged through Deanna's home--some waving mascara wands like makeup fairies, others pinning freshly curled hair--she stood patiently while her sister tied the corset to the wedding dress. Her father passed sliced apples over the kitchen counter to Deanna and watched as his daughters glowed in the afternoon sunlight seeping through the blinds. Just before darting out the door, Deanna kissed her father goodbye, only to kiss her future husband hello a few minutes later.

Having opted to see each other before the ceremony, Deanna approached Tommy from behind, lightly brushing his shoulder with her delicate fingers. WIth tears streaming down his face, they embraced and shared a few quiet moments together. The tears continued off-and-on through the ceremony. As Tommy stood proudly next to the minister, tears rolled down his cheeks as Deanna walked down the aisle.

Together they will both relocate to Arkansas and begin their lives as husband and wife. Something tells me they'll be flying higher on love than the jets Tommy flies for the Air Force :)

Here a few of my favorites....

Don't get me wrong...I love Manolo Blahnik's just as much as any girl, but this is the smartest pair of wedding shoes ;)

They're givin' me a run for my money!

To view the wedding in its entirety, CLICK HERE for the slideshow!

Get Inspired

2007-03-02T19:07:00.000-08:00

For our one-year wedding anniversary, I was all about practicality. It made me feel eighty-something. Like I slept with croutons under my bed and watered my Chia pet every morning. But JD didn’t mind. In fact, he was the happiest I’d seen him in a while…then again, he’s also the type of guy who’d find joy in celebrating his upcoming birthday at Sizzler. He’s like that.

I got him a new wallet, a tie, some other odds and ends, and…a year-long subscription to National Geographic Magazine. Like I said, I felt eighty-something. I carefully wrapped the magazine and crafted a homemade certificate stating he’d be receiving a yellow-rimmed glossy every month. Upon opening it, he stood in shock. Like the type of shocked face the first time you stuck your finger in an electrical socket (or maybe that was just me?). He stood dumbfounded at the side of our bed and then—like magic—sunbeams radiated from his scruffy face. The man was elated beyond belief.

I didn’t understand the big deal. I mean, com’on…it’s just pictures of elephants and scantily clad children bathing in streams, right?

Every month, when the magazine arrives, JD acts infantile. Drooling over pages of pictures and articles…and elephants. There always seems to be elephants. He tries to tell me about the feature article in detail, but I seem to lose him after, So…

Last night, I made and ate dinner by myself because JD had to work late. On our table was nothing more than the latest issue of National Geographic. I opened the magazine and began poring over the pages. It was amazing…breath-taking, really. The pictures…the people…the stories…everything. How I lived my life for so long not drooling over this magazine is beyond me. Yes, people, I’ve Neanderthalically realized there is more to photographic inspiration than Vogue, W, and Rolling Stone. By the time I finished the magazine, I was totally and completely inspired. Truly and soulfully inspired.

This post isn’t about a magazine, nor is it about how my husband is always right (even though I’ll never admit this!). It’s about finding something that rocks your world. Finding that thing that makes you want to pick up your camera and capture life as you see it…life as it unfolds. By doing so, you’ll shape and define your beliefs and those of people around you.

Two Nights in LA: Vegetarian Gyozas and Defying Gravity

2007-02-27T23:56:00.000-08:00

The last two nights here in southern California have been cold, but thankfully I've been tucked away in my favorite Los Angeles spots enjoying life.

Last night JD and I scored some pretty golden tickets to a Clippers game and I was stoked because, well, I loooove basketball. We started the evening in Little Tokyo at one of our favorite Japanese restaurants. We know the restaurant is a little ghetto-fabulous, but there's no denying its take-no-caloric-prisoners quality and charm. And the best part is the fact that Suehiro offers vegetarian gyozas...people, is there even more to ask?! ;)

JD took the following picture of me. He often times pokes fun at the fact that I firmly believe collars should be fashionably flipped up, and never folded like a good school boy. As we were leaving the restaurant--after conquering a bowl of ramen--I put on my jacket and...flipped up my collar. Of course he made fun of me, so I just had to show him how a cool girl like me can work the collar :)

Later we made our way to the Staples Center and watched the Clippers beat the Charlotte Bobcats.
This is JD running from my camera (I was determined to get an equally dorky picture of him, but he runs fast)

And tonight, I'm just getting home from a fabulous night at the theater. My sister got JD and me tickets to Wicked for Christmas, and I just got home from seeing the best musical ever. Ever. I've seen many musicals, ballets, and operas before, but this show really takes the cake. It's even better than the hype, so I just want to thank my sister for being so wonderful and say good night because I'm beat.

Engagement: Becky and Drew

2007-02-25T19:44:00.000-08:00

He saw her for the first time at a milk-chugging contest in college. He visited her freshman residence hall to view the strangely amusing lactose fanfare, but became smitten as she chugged her way through a gallon of milk. Although Becky was sick for the rest of the evening, Drew stood by her side and was inspired by her joie de vivre. Through the past two years, they've become friends, soul mates, and soon-to-be partners for life. As they made their way through the streets and sand of Laguna Beach, they spent most of their day laughing at whispered jokes and kissing as if no one was watching. They'll be married in May and I'm--like always--honored to be a part of their special day.

Here are a few of my favorites...

To view more pictures, CLICK HERE for their engagement slideshow!

Ford Model and Ford Commercial

2007-02-24T22:22:00.000-08:00

Just wanted to give a lil blog lovin' to Felipe...again. I photographed him a couple months ago as he was building a modeling portfolio. Just this past week, I discovered he was casted for a national Ford Automobile commercial slated to air during baseball season. He'll be portraying a catcher, so be on the lookout for his good looks...oops, I meant...keep an eye out for his good acting abilities ;)

Tina and Rick

2007-02-22T10:23:00.000-08:00

Sometime last year, I assisted Mike Colon with one of is Four-Day Intensive Workshops. While there, I met Jennifer Regruth and we got along quite well. While I was in Cabo a couple weeks ago, Jennifer emailed me and asked if I'd be able to shoot with her for a wedding here in Orange County. I wasn't able to shoot the entire day, but I was fortunate enough to meet up with Tina and Rick in Newport Beach.

Here are a few of my favorites...
The sky was absolutely breath-taking last Saturday

I can't fully express how wonderful it is when a bride and groom will set aside a time on their wedding day in order to get the type of images that are unique, beautiful, and define their wedding. Tina and Rick truly valued their photography and in turn made sure they organized their day to accommodate their desires...not only were they able to spend time along as husband and wife, they have pictures to prove just how beautiful is their love.

Breathe

2007-02-20T11:23:00.000-08:00

Sometimes I get so caught up in what I'm doing I forget to breathe.

No, really, I forget to inhale and exhale. When I'm really stressed, or extremely focused, I can probably go minutes without coming up for air, so to speak. As a child, my dad would read to me at night, but he started noticing that if he read Nancy Drew Mysteries without periodically looking at me, I ran the risk of going entire chapter with my breath sucked deep in my lungs. That Nancy, whew, she was something else.

Still to this day, when I'm editing pictures late at night, I force myself to take vicious yoga-style breaths. It seems as of late that I've had quite a few projects to juggle...and juggling requires a keen sense of focus. And when I'm focused, I forget breathe. Sure, you may think that not breathing for two minutes is near to impossible, but, World, Meet My Lungs.

Yesterday, I received a small black box in the mail. I opened it to find a small gift and a note that read: Love, Mama and Dad

This was their reminder that come what may, I'm blessed and I need to remember to breathe. To take a deep breath and enjoy the smell of wet pavement, the smell of fresh laundry, and the smell of JD's nightly obsession with homemade chocolate chip cookies. I encourage you to do the same today :)

Gabrielle

2007-02-18T10:51:00.000-08:00

I photographed a classic beauty a few days ago. Her maturity is beyond her 17 years and her intellect is staggering. She hopes to attend Stanford University after graduating in a few months, and I have no doubt she will accomplish every dream she aspires to acheive. At first shy, Gabrielle morphed into a true model before my very eyes and the camera was immediately smitten and lured into her captivating presence.

Here are a few of my favorites...

God Bless His Cotton Socks

2007-02-16T23:09:00.000-08:00

God bless his cotton socks!*

Yesterday myself and a few other photographers had the pleasure of being invited to Mike Colon’s house for an Apple APERTURE demo. Apple’s Product Marketing Manager, Martin Gisborne, set up a swanky presentation in Mike’s beautiful living room, giving a demo and fielding questions—as well as [b]ecker’s occasional eternal pledge of Apple allegiance outbursts :)

The presentation was wonderful, but sitting in a room with such a talented bunch of people was an extra blessing. While Martin thoroughly answered our questions and comments, Mike was busy popping popcorn—and even making a cup of hot cocoa for Jessica--as well as providing chips and salsa, CornNuts, and juicy fruit snacks for everyone. He was such a humble host and an awesome example to his guests. If you’d like to read a wonderful account of the day, check out Joe Photo’s Blog.

I’ll be updating my blog in regard to my Aperture experience…although I’m pretty stoked at how wonderful this software is going to make my life. It’ll improve my workflow and I’m sure it’s an added benefit to my clients’ experiences.

Special thanks to Mike, Martin, and everyone who attended the workshop…it’s wonderful to be challenged to constantly raise the bar.

*The title for this entry is a literal quote from Martin. He's English. There were times when we had to stop him and ask for a quick translation because he has a unique way of speaking, as well as peculiar idioms and phrases...and the Brits claim we ruined the English language?!? ;)

Valentine's Starry Night

2007-02-14T17:48:00.000-08:00

Flashback:
JD dropped me off at my favorite boutique and waited while I made figure-eights through the racks of clothing. Usually he’s my human shopping cart—organizing the shirts on one arm, juggling the pants on the other, keeping one hand free to hold the skirts—but on that Thursday evening three months ago, he loitered around the dressing rooms wallpapered with Vogue and W magazines. I’m going to take a walk, do you mind?

Forty-five minutes later, he returned with a beaming smile. Like the kind of smile one might see on a grandmother who’s just had her cat rescued from a tree. Elated, excited, ecstatic. He went on to tell me about an art store nearby that sells famous paintings, redone by local artists. Klimt, Rembrant, Matisse. JD told me he found Van Gogh’s Starry Night and insisted we buy it. When he told me the price, I scoffed. Literally, I made the sound of a scoff. Schoffschmeshpfft.

Why would you want to pay good money for a wannabe painting?!

Then I made the scoff sound again. Schoffschmeshpfft.

JD just stared at me. Then at the jeans I held closely to my chest. Then back at me. It’s funny how differently we value things JD tersely said. That painting costs less than that pair of jeans. I wanted to immediately apologize. I wanted to put up a fight. I wanted to be right. But I couldn’t and I wasn’t. Had the tables been turned, JD would have left the store in a nanosecond and purchased the painting. No questions asked. He’d do whatever to see me happy. And, well, I just scoff.

Today, Valentine’s Day 2007:
Our room was still grey. The sun was fighting to make its way into the window blinds when I woke. Happy Valentine’s, JD chirped from under his pillow. He always wakes happy. It’s gift time!! I whooped as I climbed off the bed. Although we agreed to not exchange gifts this year, I leaned under the bed and began rummaging. Jaz, I thought we were just going out for dinner?! JD groaned. I placed the large white package on his blanket-covered belly while he propped himself with pillows.

A minute later, Starry Night sat in his lap.

It was my way of saying sorry. It was my way of saying how much I love him. It was my way of ensuring he’ll always smile like an old grandma who’s found her lost cat.

Happy Valentine’s Day!

Marco and Hayley

2007-02-13T21:06:00.000-08:00

The rain clouds lingered at a distance as Hayley dressed in her hotel room. She meandered around the chilled room by herself in complete silence. Her parents ate lunch in the adjacent room while the humming sound of CNN lingered in the air. She put on her makeup and styled her hair, steamed her dress, slipped on her shoes, and popped out the door. Just before she walked out of the room, she spun in a circle and sung, I'm so happy to be getting married...I'm so happy to be getting married!!

Hayley and Marco wed last Saturday in Studio City and then headed to the Universal City Sheraton Rooftop Garden Ballroom for the beautiful reception. The Ballroom overlooks the city lights, so the backdrop was stunning on such a clear Los Angeles night.

Surrounded by their friends and family, Marco and Hayley danced the night away to sounds of a mariachi band, one bumpin' DJ, and cheers of support.

Here are a few favorites from their day...
I'm such a sucker for shoes

Hayley's ring is a Parisian antique, and I fell in love with it at first sight!

The radiant Hayley

You can see the night lights in the background...

I snapped this picture in the Sheraton Staff Elevator...I guess they were happy to be alone! ;)

To see the wedding in its entirely, CLICK HERE for the slideshow

"Model" Turned Hobo

2007-02-11T17:47:00.000-08:00

Coming home from Cabo and the Xtreme Seminar has been lovely, but I’m so tired from such a great time of learning and soakin’ up some rays...oops, I meant soakin’ up some knowledge. Yes, I meant knowledge. And knowledge makes me tired. Because it took me f.o.r.e.v.e.r. to get out of bed this morning, I went to church dressed like a chic hobo. Okay, maybe I wasn’t dressed chic—but the hobo part, that’s true. I rationalized my church wear because of the light rain, and convinced myself that God can forgive sins, even my fashion transgressions.

I visited Jessica’s Blog today and saw the pictures she took from the seminar of JD and me. For those of you who didn’t know, we were invited to the seminar to ‘model’. Now, we’re not models—nor do we ever, ever aspire to be—but we had such a great time being in front of the camera. Or should I say cameras? Being in front of 35 cameras simultaneously can be quite disconcerting, but everyone in the seminar was gracious and encouraging.

If I didn't say this before, then I'll say it here now: Thanks to Jessica and Liana for such an awesome seminar, thanks to Becker for always robbing my poker money (oh, yeah, and thanks for the new headshot, too!), thanks to the Florin's for just being fabulous, and thanks to all the fantastic photographers who made me fall more in love with photography.

Here are a few of Jessica’s blog favorites…
This is a candid shot she caught of me and JD, just outside of the villa kitchen

Xtremely Thankful

2007-02-09T07:35:00.000-08:00

All is well in Villa Cortez this morning. Some people are packing bags, some are still sleeping, and I’m enjoying the orange and purple morning sky. We’re leaving Cabo today, but with us we take new friends and many memories…oh, yeah, and we also learned a lot too! ;) I can’t reiterate how fantastic the Xtreme Seminar fared and I’m not just saying this because Jessica Claire and Liana are my friends. It goes much deeper than that. They learned a lot from their last NYC seminar and they used what worked and created a new system to address what didn’t. The seminar was truly one of the best investments a photographer could’ve made and I’m quite sure every attendee echoes the same sentiment.

I’m extraordinarily blessed to have been invited by Jess and Liana to join them in Cabo and shackled to their kindness. Both JD and I were humbled by their offer and thankful to have spent so much time grounding our friendships.

I shoot my first wedding of the year tomorrow and I’m recharged, excited, and more in love being able to pursue my passion.

Here's one of becker's infamous self-portraits...along with everyone else who stayed in our villa...me, JD, Steven and Kristen Florin, [b], Jessica, and Liana...

Happy Birthday, Blog!

2007-02-07T18:07:00.000-08:00

Dear Blog…

Happy Birthday! You’re a year old today and I can’t believe how we’ve grown together. You’ve changed your look (the old template did nothing for your sleek figure) and become a library of sorts. You catalogue my thoughts, fears and dreams and store them away for me to never forget how far we’ve come.

Who would’ve thought that only after a year of your inception, I’d be sitting in Cabo San Lucas with the very photographers I admired from a distance, only hoping of the chance to meet them. Life is beautiful.

Blog, please don’t let me rearrange history. You need to help me remember that starting my business was a nauseous cocktail of frustration, fear, with a splash of embarrassment. Shaken, not stirred. But times have changed. We’ve changed. My business has now become the second love of my life and that dreaded cocktail has morphed into the very drink that nourishes my soul. Blog, we’ve come a long way.

Here’s to many more entries, memories, mishaps, milestones, and adventures…

Limes and a Sugar Momma

2007-02-06T09:30:00.000-08:00

Around 2 am this morning, I climbed into bed exhausted. Happy, but exhausted. Jess and Liana hosted the first day of what seems to be a very successful seminar. Everything is top notch and executed with the highest level of professionalism. Everyone is having a wonderful time and I’ve been so blessed to meet some incredible people.

Once everyone left the villa, [b]ecker hosted a poker game. First off, if you don’t know, [b] is a card shark. Like Vegas-style. Except he plays poker constantly on his iPod. So knowing this, we decided to raise the stakes Cabo-style. We played for limes and packets of sugar. Oh yeah, baby, we’re big time.

JD started off the game really well (probably because I was instructing him on what to do…I’m almost a professional poker player),but Jessica ‘Slick Hands’ Claire swooped on his game quick. Jess and [b] battled along, but Steve and Kristen didn’t back from the high stakes game. In the end, Kristen and [b]ecker went head-to-head…and Kristen….WON! Yup, fellas, I guess women aren’t just better photographers…they’re better at poker too! ;)

Here's the late night group: Liana, Jess, JD, Kristen, Steve, [b]...

[b] got really into the game..too bad he lost! ;)

Here's Jess in her professional poker player glasses...

I don't think you can tell in this picture, but JD was really nervous playing against Jess...she's a force to be reckoned with ;) hehe

Xtreme Day One

2007-02-05T11:55:00.000-08:00

Wow. That's all I have to say right now. My trip started off with a bang and I feel SO blessed to be sitting where I am right now. Where am I sitting? Well, I'm lounging by the pool...and blogging. The villa Jessica and Liana rented is absolutely breathtaking. It's right off the coast, so the views are stunning and last night I fell asleep to the sounds of the crashing Pacific. I couldn't ask to be in a better place.
This morning I woke up early and while everyone else slept off remnants of last night's Super Bowl party, I was able to work. I opened the glass doors in my room to the poolside and watched the sun rise against the purple Mexican sky with my laptop chillin' on my bed. It was glorious.
Here are a few pictures...but more are to come once the internet connection is fixed...
An inside view of the villa

The lovely pool

A view from the back of the villa

I'm such a tourist ;)

Adios!

2007-02-04T08:26:00.000-08:00

Hi!

I will be in Cabo San Lucas from Sunday, February 4 through Friday, February 9, 2007. Should you need to contact me, please do so via email.

I'm flying out today with [b]ecker and Jessica Claire and while I'm SO excited, I'm a little sad to...today is the Super Bowl and it'll be my first not watching it with JD. For almost 10 years, we've sat glued side-by-side cheering, eating, and laughing our way through the Super Bowl. This year we'll be doing the same...just in different countries. JD will be joining us on Tuesday, so I'll be counting the days until then! :)

I'll be posting from Mexico, so be sure to check back for Xtreme updates!!

Simple Photo Minute with the Boutwell's

2007-02-01T10:59:00.000-08:00

Last week I had the phattest afternoon. When I walked into the Boutwell’s tri-level home and studio, I just knew I was in store for an awesome experience. If you’re not familiar with their work, you must check it out because its different and edgy and oozes cool. Like of like that kid in high school who wore a beret and dark-rimmed glasses and hung out in the art lab. Yup, exactly that cool.

I visited their studio because I was putting together a Simple Photo Minute episode. Before I went, however, I had to do my Indie and underground music research because Doug is reeeeeally into music. I, on the other hand, have a tendency to listen to Boy Bands who end their plurals with Zs. As I was editing the music for the SPM, I had to ask myself, WWBC? What Would a Boutwell Choose?

In the end, the episode fared well and I’m stoked I had the pleasure of hanging out with some absolutely amazing people.

If you’d like to see the episode, CLICK HERE

The Bride and Bloom Magazine

2007-01-31T23:44:00.000-08:00

Just a piece of news...Bride and Bloom Magazine launched its brand new site today! I've been blessed to work with and meet the most amazng people at B&B and I'm indebted to their kindness, support...and referrals! ;)

On a sidenote, I have a small write-up in the latest issue, so be sure to check it out! The article focuses on a wedding day, as photographed by Jaysun McMillin, and the couple is just too sweet! It was my first write-up for the magazine, but it's led to other projects and I'm really proud to work in tandem with such an awesome group of people.

It's A Hard Knock Life

2007-01-30T08:36:00.000-08:00

I've kept my hair in a slick ponytail for the past two days. And in hats.

Because I had my hair dyed recently. And JD now calls me Annie.

This morning, after coming home from the gym with my hair falling like loose branches around my face, JD looked at me, and started to sing, "Tooooomorrow, Tooooomorrow...I'll love ya, Toooomorrow..."

It's A Hard Knock Life.

Playing Catch...Up

2007-01-27T20:57:00.001-08:00

Not too many people know this, but I was an awesome tee-ball player. Like Big League awesome. And I don’t take pride in too may things…but tee-ball…well, that’s a whole other world. I was taller—and wider—than most of the other seven-year-old boys trying out, and while it might have seemed like I should have been a sought after player, I wasn’t. Because I was a girl. My sister and I were the sole female prospects in the league and we were somewhat overlooked during draft time. An All-American pariah, if you will.

We were drafted into a Bad News Bear-ish team coached by our neighbor. After a few practices, a dreadful team picture, and a couple games, I started to get the hang of smacking the ball over the fence. Every.single.time.at.bat. Between myself, my sister, and this amazing shortstop named Hayden, we took our team to the championship. On trophy day, the league commissioners announced the players who made the All-Star Team. When my name wasn’t called, I was broken-hearted. I went home and played catch with my dad every day for a week and then laid my Big League dreams to rest.

To this day, the only catch I play is catch-up. This afternoon was one such day. Not too long ago, I wrote an autobiographical book based on my father’s life. Since then, I’ve worked on various writing projects, but have slowed considerably now that photography is my main focus. I haven’t accepted new writing commissions in a while, but not too long ago, I decided to work on a new project with a friend writing another autobiographical book. I’m SO excited, but also nervous because writing a book takes a LOT of time, effort, and love. I just finished Bird by Bird by Anne Lamott, which is a great read if you’re interested in learning how to write better. It’s practical, funny, and a fantastic read. I’m currently reading On Beauty by Zadie Smith because in order to write, one must read. And oh is this book so beautifully written. I’ve been a fan of Smith’s for a while now, so getting to read her latest book is a true luxury.

So, today was filled with reading and writing. And playing catch…up. When I think about it, not making the All-Star Team was a good thing. I mean, I could’ve been a catcher playing for the Angels instead of doing what I really love ;)

Marianne Lanting

2007-01-25T21:39:00.000-08:00

This afternoon I spent a little time with couture wedding gown designer, Marianne Lanting in her work studio. Not only is she an amazing designer, she's one of the warmest people you'll ever meet. I actually met Marianne through Mike after a photoshoot. I was assisting Mike during one of his seminars and was able to tag along to the shoot, which was totally fantastic. She had a runway show during NYC's Fashion Week and her dresses are only available through certain boutiques and high-end department stores and I can see why--they're all so beautifully made and crafted.
It was wonderful being able to speak with Marianne and get to know her a little better. She's a beautiful person--inside and out--exudes such kindness. It makes me happy to be in the same industry and even happier to know that I'm working alongside some pretty fabulous people.

Joe and Lori

2007-01-23T08:49:00.000-08:00

This past Saturday I had the pleasure of second shooting with Marisa Homes Photography. I always love second shooting and this past Saturday was no exception! Marisa and I had met a few times before through [b]ecker, but it wasn't until last Saturday when we got to really get to know each other and have a blast! The wedding was unique because Marisa and the couple were her friends since high school, so it was like a mini reunion where everyone got along and happiness was oozing out of every nook and cranny. It was truly wonderful.

Joe and Lori were absolutely amazing to work with and they treated me like I had been friends with them just as long as Marisa...and to make things even better, they looked gorgeous! The wedding was on the rooftop of the Reef Restaurant, just adjacent to the Queen Mary and the day was just glorious. This is the view outside the restaurant onto the Queen Mary:
I want to thank Marisa for the invitation to shoot with her and, more importantly, Joe and Lori for sharing their special day with me! :)

Here are a few of my favorites...

As we were making our way to the Reef, the wind caught Lori's veil...

I took this picture because I thought it was hilarious that we were shooting in the street...when I saw it on Marisa's Blog, I had to post it here. She said she she'd do anything for a great shot--including getting in harm's way! You gotta love that girl! :)

A prayer just before the ceremony...

The moment just before walking down the aisle...

The Reef's Ballroom was really pretty and the Lori paid close attention to the details...

The Grand Entrance...

This little girl was following Marisa and me around the whole night..she was so cute...so I have to give her a lil blog lovin'

Happliy Ever After...

To see the wedding in its entirety, CLICK HERE for the slideshow!

Praying for Vision

2007-01-20T11:09:00.000-08:00

There's something incredible about mothers. They have this insatiable desire to be selfless, giving, and abounding with love. Even though I'm happily married and adult-ish (this notion has been heavily debated between JD and me due to my urges of jumping on the bed and still watching cartoon movies), I immediately become a puddle of helplessness when my mom is around. Seriously, if she offered to cut the food on my plate, I'd easily oblige.

As I've mentioned on my blog before, my mother battled brain cancer and eye cancer while I was in college and law school and while she's technically in remission, her health is extraordinarily fragile. She has a rare autoimmune disease called Relapsing Polychondritis that pretty much attacks the cartilage portions of her body (ears, nose, parts of her eyes, etc) and is currently undergoing chemotherapy. Watching her suffer for so long--it's been a six-year battle--has taken a toll on my family, but it's also caused us to rally together in my mom's time of need. At while it may not seem like much, our dinner arguments have been stymied to brief squabbles over who drank the last of the Perrier and we try not to make fun of each other as much. Ahem, we try anyway.

Through her ordeal, my mom has remained optimistic and a pillar of strength. Sometimes when I see her struggle, I begin to cry. Instead of comforting her in her time of greatest need, she's the one soliciting words of faith and hope. She's truly amazing.

Last night, while sitting in the wooden bleachers of a high school gymnasium, my family cheered on my brother during his basketball game. When the team took a time-out, she leaned over to me and said she saw my recent engagement session on my blog (besides JD, my mother is my biggest fan) and said she was praying for me. Uh, thanks?, I replied to her statement unsure if she thought my work was so unbearable only divine assistance could improve my work. No, Jasmine, I've been praying that God would give you the type of eye you desire...that your vision and your photography can be equal to each other, my mother said.

I stifled a sob and thanked her. Then the buzzer rang and the teams resumed playing.

My mother, who almost lost her eyesight to cancer and still struggles to keep it, is praying for MY eyes. I was emotionally choked by the irony. My mother is selfless, giving and abounding with love. I don't ever truly know if my vision and my photography will every truly align, but knowing that she's sacrificially praying on my behalf is more than I could ever ask.

**This is actually a picture of my twin sister and my mom...I couldn't find a recent picture of me and my mom, so I just a picture of someone who looks like me and my mom. Ahhh, the perks of having a twin! :)

Lisa and Eric Engagements

2007-01-18T20:18:00.000-08:00

Oh, wait, Eric told Lisa as he gently touched her arm. Before she could stop him, his back was turned to her and was making his way back to the car. I forgot my hat, he hollered from a distance. A few minutes later, Eric returned with the crumpled hat in his left hand. I wanted to get you something special, he said as he unfurled the black clump in his hands. From the dark cap, he pulled out a pink corsage, much like a magician. Eric placed the corsage on her delicate wrist and the two embraced under the shadows of nearby trees.

Lisa and Eric’s love is an old-fashioned love, kind of like Coca-Cola—sweet, bubbly and original. The couple has been courting each other for almost two years, but wanted to save their first kiss for their wedding day. Watching them love each other so carefully was truly a testament to their devotion and beliefs. I’m so happy to be a part of their wedding day this April!

Here are a few of my favories…

**To see the shoot in its entirety, CLICK HERE**

The Coolest Feet in Texas

2007-01-16T11:31:00.000-08:00

This morning, I woke early and checked out David Jay's Blog and found this little gem:

DJ is at the PPA Convention in Texas and saw the picture he took and my wedding, which was later a cover photo for PPA Magazine. Yup, yup, yup...DJ made my feet cool.
He's seriously the best wedding photographer ever!

**Sidenote: To my brides who read this blog, David Jay isn't reeeally the best wedding photographer...I just say this to him because he was my wedding photographer, who later turned mentor and friend. Yes, I know he's an internationally renowned wedding photojournalist with a plethora of awards, but, still. And yes I walked around with my wedding album for weeks after I received it, showing it to anyone who wanted to see (including my manicurist and pharmacist), but, still. I just say this because he's my friend. And friends should always say nice things.** :) hehe

Stars, Flowers and Spreadsheets

2007-01-14T20:41:00.000-08:00

Uuuughhhh! Why don’t they match?
Jasmine, please don’t be concerned with the font.
Yes, but I can’t concentrate if the Excel spreadsheet is so ugly.
Listen, I don’t think the IRS auditor will even care if your fonts don’t match.
But I do!

JD was hunched over my back as I organized my receipts for my accountant, but was quickly becoming frustrated working with someone who wanted a multi-colored spreadsheet and multiple fonts. I was on the verge of inserting little stars and flowers just for an extra non-taxish effect. I mean, my accountant must see thousands of spreadsheets and I wanted mine to stand out.

Jasmine, I don’t think inserting stars and flowers even matter!

I went back to working on my spreadsheet, surrounded by paper mountains of shiny receipts. Just as I was on the verge of frustration, JD—who was laying on the floor next to me—gave me an flowery alternative to my spreadsheet. On scraps of paper, he made me a flipbook. The flipbook showed a little stick man walking up to a flower, plucking it, saying ‘I Love You’, then floating off the page. It was just the break from seriousness that I needed.

So while I didn’t get to insert stars and flowers, I was able to flip through a homemade book filled with everything I couldn’t include on my spreadsheet.

Mark and Kim Engagements

2007-01-11T20:18:00.000-08:00

It was where they first met. He behind the espresso machine and she on her way to work across the street. One day, Kim garnished enough nerve and asked Mark to a party—after speaking to him on a few occasions—as he prepared her Starbucks drink. The following Friday night, they went to the party together. As things progressed, Kim decided to get a job at Starbucks…she was then able to simultaneously enjoy her caffeine fixes and her boyfriend. Although three years have past and career moves have been made, their love for each other—and coffee—hasn’t waned.

Last Tuesday they briskly walked into Starbucks and were greeted by the store manager. Over the whirls and buzzes of the blenders and brewing coffee, hellos were exchanged and they all briefly spoke about the upcoming wedding. Mark and Kim ordered their drinks and sat at a table in the corner, speaking in hushed tones only broken by bouts of laughter. It’s hard to believe how life has a way of guiding people to each other so that they form a perfect fit. Kim randomly walked into Starbucks to get herself a cup of coffee and three years later was walking out of the same Starbucks with her future husband.

Love is a beautiful and crazy thing!

Here are a few from their engagement session…

**To see the shoot in its entirety, CLICK HERE**

Ira and Leather Craftsmen

2007-01-09T20:14:00.000-08:00

We walked up the stoop to his rustic door. Ira peeked through a rectangular window— where a peep-hole would usually reside—and smiled. He opened the door and welcomed Drew and I into his very chic (and uber L.A.) home. When talking to Ira, one can easily detect a New York accent, and there were times I found myself half-hoping he’d say ‘Fuhgettaboutit’ just for kicks.

Drew and I were fortunate to be able to sit and talk with Ira and we had a great time because he’s quite possibly the best representative of Leather Craftsmen there is. Before wedding season is in high gear, I wanted to fully understand the process of creating and developing the best wedding album for my clients, so I turned to Ira. Not only was he able to explain the ins and outs, he really went out of his way to show us the many options we have for our clients and LC’s commitment to quality. He was awesome! So, for all my brides who read my blog, feel free to ask me anything about your album…I’m sure I can answer everything. And if I can’t, I’ll call Ira! :)

Here's glamor shot of us...

This was stack one of 1,679 stacks...and Ira floating around in the background :)

On a completely lame side-note, I had the opportunity to meet Ira officially last month and a LC get together for photographers in Los Angeles. I say ‘had’ because I didn’t carpe diem if you will. I was too much of a chicken…or introvert…or something marginally linked in that category. Ira spearheaded a pizza party for photographers to become better acquainted with LC, but I didn’t really have the cajones to walk up to random people and introduce myself, Ira included. This intimidation, coupled with the fact the party was hosted by Robert Evans-- famed photographer for TomKat’s wedding and many others—probably made me appear like my backside belonged on the side of a milk carton. MISSING: Jasmine Star’s Spine. Please Call If Found. Reward.

Need Help Writing Your Bio?

2007-01-07T14:51:00.000-08:00

I’ve received a few emails from photographers asking for a little help in writing a bio for their websites. Now, I love to help others whenever I have the chance, but lately things have been kind of stressful. I’ve actually helped a few photographers already, but I’ve been having a hard time staying in contact with those who have recently asked for some feedback or ideas.

I know how hard it is writing a bio…it an excrutiating process if you ask me. And I like to write! Most people have a hard time writing about themselves because one fears running the risk of sounding trite, foolish, conceited, lame…or an awful concoction of all of these things ☺ When I was putting my website bio together, I asked the person I trust the most when it comes to drafting a write-up: my sister.
She’s an amazing writer and gives practical advice when I’m faced with a lack of creativity. And to make things even sweeter, she's a heck of a lot nicer than me! :) She's the kind of girl who can walk into a room not knowing anyone and by the end of the night, she's swapping goulash recipes with someone's grandmother and planning weekend getaways for a group of people she's just met. She's just that nice.

In lieu of this, I’ll now be referring bio inquiries to her. If anyone is interested in her services, please feel free to email me ( jasmine@jasminestarphotography ) and I’ll forward your requests her way. Even if this is something you’re not quite sure is for you, I’m positive she won’t mind getting to know you better and sifting through various possibilities for your bio! :)

The Undercover Teenybopper

2007-01-04T07:10:00.000-08:00

I was an undercover teenybopper. I was much too overweight to be considered cute, and much too tomboy to be considered girly. So I went undercover. This behavior was further buttressed by my parents’ belief that young girls shouldn’t be interested with the opposite sex until one was old enough to vote (‘When you can choose a president, you can then choose a boyfriend!’) or ready to be married. Whatever came first.

When New Kids on the Block were at their peak, the neighborhood girls would sing their songs and plaster Jordan Knight and Joey McIntyre’s posters above their beds, only to later dream of long walks on the beach and virgin pina coladas with their favorite band member. I, on the other hand, stared at the teddy bear wallpaper that flaccidly covered my bedroom walls before I fell asleep. While other girls openly read their Bop magazines, I would secretly scour the pages of Tiger Beat and Bop in a dark corner of the local library. Flipping through the glossy layouts, I would look over my shoulder worrying my mother would find me and banish me for my impropriety. I would gaze at pictures of Kirk Cameron and wish he’d climb off the pages and join me in that dark corner of the library. There we’d share a rootbeer float—with two straws, of course—and he’d open up about the difficulties of being part of the Seaver Family.

Years later, I’m looking at the glossy pages of Grace Ormonde’s Wedding Style Magazine no longer wishing for the man on the page to climb off and join me. Because he is. My dream pin-up is sitting next to me. And, no, Kirk Cameron hasn’t dropped by for a visit.

A few months ago, I was blessed to work with Mike Colon and assist him for the Grace Ormonde Shoot . Mike asked JD to help as well…just on the other side of the camera! Well, Ormonde’s West Coast Contributor emailed and let me know the Spring/Summer issue just debuted, so I had to go to Borders and get my first look. To my surprise, Grace apparently likes JD as much as I do because she gave him a full page! ;) I couldn’t stop laughing when I saw the picture.

Life has a funny way of working. For so long I was an undercover teenybopper, but now—many years later—I’m no longer the girl reading in the dark corner. I’m the girl walking out of Borders with a pin-up.

The Broccoli Diet and the New Year

2007-01-02T20:44:00.000-08:00

Today I’ve had the opportunity to take a step back and think about the New Year. Now, I know I can make a bunch of resolutions, but the problem with resolutions is that I don’t keep them. Case in point: I’ve been vowing since I was eleven years old to be on a strict diet (somehow the Broccoli and Water Diet never seems to stick). Many years later, I’m still resolving to lose the soft folds of skin that seem to gravitate in areas that shall remain nameless.

Seeing how I’m going to keep my weight loss wishes on a minimum, I’m going to make just one resolution: To be a better person. I know I can only do this with Divine assistance, so I’m going to have to pray more. Which will help me be a better Christian…which will help me be a better wife…which will help me be a better daughter…which will help me be a better sister…which will help me be a better friend…which will help me be a better ______________ (noun). If I keep my priorities aligned, everything else will fall into place.

So while I’m still secretly going to give that Broccoli and Water Diet another whirl, I know that I this year what I really want is to be a better person.

Wife of the (End of the) Year

2006-12-30T23:02:00.000-08:00

Today JD and I spent the day in Palm Springs. Now, I usually love spending time with JD, but today was extra special. It was extra special because I earned some major cool points...yup, I was most definitely a candidate for Wife of the Year. Too bad this year ends tomorrow! :)

One of JD's Christmas gifts from me this year was a Garmin Navigation System.

He's been wanting a navigation system for what seemed like forever, so when he unwrapped his gift, he raised his clenched fists and began pumping them wildly above his head. He then screamed, Yesssss....Yessssss...Yesssss, each corresponding with a fist pump. He then looked at me with moist eyes and trembling lips and said he was undeserving of such a wonderful, generous, and thoughtful wife.

Okay, okay, so things really didn't happen that way, but, still. He was happy.

Anyway, today I insisted he called me Thomas (as in Guide), because I wanted to show him all the cool things the nav system does.
*What, did you say you felt like Jamba Juice?! Let little Thomas here find that for you...
*Need gas? No? Well in case you did, there are four stations within three miles of us...
*Hmm, wow, we're only five miles from the mall...and it'd take us only 7.34 minutes to get there! We should just go to the mall...you know, to see how accurate this thing reeeeeally is.

I seriously can't believe we've lived so long without a navigational system. It's so fantasitically amazing that I think everyone should go out a get one immediately. And if you wives out there are smart, you'll wait until after tomorrow...that way you'll be able to be Wife of the Year a heck of a lot longer than me!! :)

Eating My Business the Way I Eat My Oreos

2006-12-28T19:16:00.000-08:00

There are two types of business people: 1. People who will only do what they love; and 2. People who will do whatever, as long as it yields enough profit…or pays the bills. I happen to fall into the first category. Thankfully. But this makes me feel guilty. Or blessed. Perhaps a mixture of both. Like an Oreo cookie—two dark sides of chocolately guilt smushing my sugary blessings.

As I approach the New Year, my often myopic eyes are able to look back and see how delicious this past year has been. Sugary blessings. The people I’ve met and the weddings I’ve photographed have made such an impact on my life…so much so that they’ve allowed me to wake up in the morning and love what I do. I love LOVE. So being able to capture special moments on a wedding day has been the highlight of this year.

Today I met with a group of photographers to talk about our businesses—what makes our different and/or how approach our business models (essentially what category of businesspeople we fell into). A consultant stopped by and gave a presentation about how to refine what we do, but at the end of the presentation, I don’t think I walked away with what I was supposed to. Instead of the desire for financial gain and an increased business prowess, I am more assured that if I want to remain in love with what I do, I need to focus on people, and not numbers. Don’t get me wrong, I have a business degree, so I fully understand how important running a profitable and responsible business is, but at the end of the day if I’m more focused on the bottom dollar, I’ll lose sight of what has become my passion over the past year: People. If I become so business driven, I’ll easily become the businessperson who will do anything to yield enough profit…and this is the last thing I want! I could’ve stayed in law school if that was the type of life I wanted. I need to stay enamored with what I do or else it will become a job. And I don’t want a job; I want a passion.

The best part of today’s business presentation is that it can easily be viewed much like how I enjoyed my Oreos as a kid: I unscrew the top and eat only the white center, leaving the chocolate cookies in the tray for my father to later eat. And I think that’s how I’m going to approach my business into the next year…enjoying the sugary blessings. I’m drafting my 2007 business plan and I intend on keeping people in my mission statement and in the forefront of my mind because people have become my passion.

JD took this picture of me just before I left this morning. I have a hard time posing for pictures, so I often find myself doing something ridiculous instead just a good 'ole fashioned smile. Sometimes I'll do the Kid-N-Play dance (I call it my Soul Train pose), other times I'll look off in the distance and pretend I'm picking my nose (I call it my paparazzi pose). Well, today I flashed a new pose. It's in honor of Ryan Seacrest. At the end of American Idol, he always says, "Seacrest Oouuut", so I'll call this pose, StarOoouut :)

Emily and Johnny

2006-12-26T13:25:00.000-08:00

Last Thursday I had the distinct pleasure of shooting alongside a great friend and photographer, Amelia Lyon. There’s something fantastic about watching photographers capture moments, so whenever I’m free to assist a peer, I’m always excited. Seeing Amelia in action was awesome because she wasn’t afraid to get down and dirty. Literally. In a matter of 25 minutes, she had managed to hunch, crouch, lay, and roll in the wet grass…at the end of our time at the LDS Temple in Newport Beach, Amelia’s pants were soaking. One thing’s for sure: If Amelia ever decided to quit photography, she could make a living as a contortionist. Or as a Capoeira instructor :)

The beautiful couple we were fortunate to work with was Emily and Johnny. I don’t think I’ve ever encountered such a genuinely sweet and laid back couple. The afternoon passed pleasantly because Emily just let us do our thing and trusted we’d produce the type of images she wanted. Working with Emily made me feel like I just an old friend who just happened to be taking pictures on her wedding day…I had such a great day!

Here are a few…
This is Emily's radiant face after walking out of the temple with her new husband

Here is Johnny trying to kiss his wife in public for the first time...he was more than a little nervous :)

I think brides look gorgeous when they laugh...and Emily is no exception

After leaving the temple, we when to Fashion Island to get some pictures on the carousel

Merry Christmas!!

2006-12-25T22:42:00.000-08:00

Every year, I try not to get caught up in the hustle and bustle of the holiday season, but I don’t think I did too well this year. This Christmas season I felt inordinately busy with shopping, shooting, and sipping hot cocoa (okay, that last one wasn’t really the case, but I thought the use of the triple S’s was cool in a third grade kind of way). This past week was spent catching up with friends and family…and eating waaaaaay too much. Christmas is the most wonderful time of the year and I always feel so blessed to be surrounded by people who make me a better person. I don’t deserve the beautiful people in my life, but I continually thank God for their patience, love and support. Every year I’m reminded of how fortunate I am and Christmas is a time for me to reach out and say THANKS.

Merry Christmas and I hope everyone had an amazing day!!!

Here's a picture of my two favorite boys...JD and my family dog, Juny :)

I'm pretty sure this is me after the early morning gift explosion and my dad's fabulous breakfast

Raising the Bar

2006-12-20T19:10:00.000-08:00

It takes one to know one. I suppose my mother’s right.

It takes one to know one. Or at least that’s what she always said when I told her my sister was a liar. Whenever she said this, I wanted to quip that my sister was also a budding genius and a future spandex model, but I refrained. Because mothers are good at setting cheese on traps and I wanted to show her that I was no rat. Afterall, I was a budding genius.

It takes one to know one. I wanted to tell this to Mike Colon as he adjusted the lights in the studio. I’ve always suspected he was a perfectionist, but yesterday my hypothesis was confirmed. Much before the model appeared on the scene, Mike was testing the lighting and moving each stand to just the right spot.

Mike was shooting a cover for the fabulous Bride and Bloom Magazine and I was there to assist him. I can’t write too much about the shoot itself, but when it debuts, I’ll holla. However, what I can write about is my experience. And, well, I could go on and on about it, but I’ll try to spare the details and highlight the most important thing I learned. In a nutshell, a photographer can’t take short cuts. There’s no hard and fast rule, but consistently obtaining beautiful images comes not from luck nor a I’ll-Photoshop-it-later mentality…rather, it comes from taking the extra step to get things right and never settling for less. This was proven repetitively as Mike would move a light stand a fraction of a millimeter to the left or carefully instruct the model on how to catch the most favorable light. He’d hold out a cupped hand away from his body and invisibly guide the model’s face by merely angling his long fingers. Like a facial traffic guard.

We spent the entire day shooting many wedding accoutrements, yet over and over, Mike took the time and effort to make things perfect. This may seem like an inherent notion, but I was ashamed because I’m not nearly as established or successful as he and I questioned whether my bar was set as high. As we left the shoot late last night, I knew my standards were raised.

So, yes, Mike’s a perfectionist. However, I didn’t feel overcome or ashamed with this notion because my mother’s right. It takes one to know one.

Marco and Hayley Engagements

2006-12-18T21:50:00.000-08:00

On Saturday night they worried the rain might ruin their plans to spend the day at the Huntington Library the following afternoon. On Sunday, when the crisp air was so cool it hurt to breathe too deeply and the sun shined so brightly one had to squint, Marco and Hayley happily walked the historic grounds.

Walking hand-in-hand one could’ve guessed they were in love, but what most wouldn’t know is that they were engaged a month after going out on their first date. They just knew. Hayley saw Marco during a concert and knew he was her type—tall, dark, and athletic—so she made her way over to him and struck up a conversation. Little did the small Texas girl realize she was meeting her future husband.

As they made their way around the beautiful gardens, Marco would often pull Hayley into his chest and squeeze her tightly. She fit perfectly into his over-sized arms, like a key into an old-fashioned lock.

I’m so excited to shoot their wedding next February in Los Angeles and I’m honored to be a part of their special day…here are a few from our shoot…

The ring on Marco's hand is from his time with the USC Trojans when the team won the national title

Hayley is one killer salsa dancer (and was a professional cheerleader to boot!), so here she is showing Marco her moves...

They couldn't resist the gorgeous fall leaves :)

An intersection kiss in Downtown Pasadena

**To see the shoot in its entirety, CLICK HERE**

Happy Birthday, Alexandria!

2006-12-18T21:40:00.000-08:00

Amidst the thousand and a half things I have going on right now, I met up with my family to celebrate my sister's 22nd birthday. If you were to meet Alex, you'd never guess we were sisters. She's the part of me I sometimes wish I could embrace--she's free-thinking, passive, artistic, and covered in tattoos--but we compliment each other in the oddest of ways. She completes our often linear family and adds swirls where they wouldn't exist.

Happy Birthday, Alex.......I LOVE you!!

Zoe's Blog Debut

2006-12-17T21:58:00.000-08:00

Just last night, my little sister was viewing my blog and asked a perplexing question: Why haven't I been on your blog? I looked at her blankly and said I didn't know why.

Well, tonight Zoe Belle was part of our church's annual children's Christmas play and I thought there was no better way than to make her debut :)

Here she is with fellow cast mates as celebratory town's people (I didn't make up that name...it was what was written in the program):

Here she is as an assistant to one of the Three Kings :)

JD bought Zoe flowers for her theatrical performance and I thought I'd give her a little blog lovin' for a job well done!

Website Launch

2006-12-15T07:48:00.000-08:00

The night before Christmas has always held a special place in my heart. Growing up, I’d have a hard time falling asleep knowing Santa would climb through the dryer’s lint trap. The houses on my street didn’t have chimneys, so the neighborhood kids came to a consensus: Santa visits through the lint trap. It made total sense back then.

I’d leave cookies, milk, and a detailed letter explaining that while I appreciated his kind gift-giving gestures, I knew that Christmas was really a celebration of Christ’s birth, and not about elves in the North Pole toiling away on my behalf. Oh, and he could leave the Strawberry Shortcake Doll in my stocking. Thank you very much.

Despite the modest gifts my parents were able to provide, we always had a great time opening our presents under the tree and eating a delicious breakfast afterward. It was a day I looked forward to all year and it never failed to disappoint.

There’s been few times since childhood that I’ve been able to wait in eager anticipation, but last night was one of those nights. I received an email from my web designer and, after months of waiting, my web site is ready to launch.

I have SO many people to thank (and I mentioned few in my BIO section), but I have to thank three people especially right now:
*Alan at Palladian Solutions for working so diligently on my website and dealing with my random “Can you change the dangling thingy after the fade-out thing” requests :)
*Jessica Claire for giving the site to me. Yes, I said give. She was absolutely gracious in blessing me with this site, so I owe her a plethora of kudos and a basket of heartfelt ThankYou’s!
*Lastly, I have to thank JD…again. Although words will never suffice, I must thank the human that has morphed into my backbone. Without him, I’m sure I’d resemble an amoebic mess throughout this process, so I’m stapled to his heart for his kindness.

It’s funny how life works. I’m older now, so I know Santa doesn’t visit through lint traps (although I have a chimney should he want to stop by!), but it’s nice to have that feeling of anticipation settle into your stomach. I woke up this morning not to wrapped presents and a Strawberry Shortcake Doll, but to a new website. And I’m so thankful for the many gifts in my life.

JASMINE STAR PHOTOGRAPHY. COM

SB Party Crashers

2006-12-14T08:18:00.000-08:00

This past week I’ve been feeling a little ‘blech’. You know, ‘blech’. That’s an emotion somewhere between ugh and argh. Nothing’s wrong and life is still beautiful, but I was just feeling a little blech. And just when I wanted to throw a pity party— and RSVP just myself—I got a call from some friends.

Justin and Amelia Lyon called and invited JD and I to take a drive to Santa Barbara for the PUG Christmas Party. It was totally random and unannounced, but just what I needed to hear. Sure, we’d show up late, but who cared?

As we hobbled through traffic, we talked, laughed, debated…it was wonderful. The night could have ended with of our conversation and I would have been completely happy! However, the night only got better when we met up with a great group of Santa Barbara photographers. Michael and Anna Costa hosted a wonderful party and considering it was their first official duties as the new PUG leaders, they set the bar really high ;)

After the party, a group of us went to Arigato for sushi. It’s hands down the best sushi I’ve ever eaten and I make it a point to eat there at least once when I’m in Santa Barbara.
Here are a few pictures (taken by Amelia, Justin, JD, Ricki, and Michael)

A self portrait of me and Amelia

Justin and Ricki hated the sushi

Tim Halberg is one of my favorite people...here he is loving his sushi ;)

The night finished at DJ’s where people sat around a cozy fire and talked. And I have to say that DJ is quite the barista…he has this new fancy schmancy espresso machine and made drinks for all who were willing to watch his coffee making skills in action ;)

Personalized Bridal Swimwear

2006-12-11T08:42:00.000-08:00

It’s winter. Almost Christmas time. And, well, I’m scouring the Internet for a swimsuit. Random, I know. I’m not the biggest fan of prancing around in what appears to be a thicker nylon version of my undergarments because, well, bearing my legs ranks right on up there with root-canals and broken bones. Ahem, painful.

Anyway, on a lighter note, I came across a designer from New York (Malia Mills) who custom designs bathing suits to one’s dimensions, yielding swimwear made perfectly for the owner. That’s less-painful news for those of us who don’t match up to our Heidi Klum counterparts who skip along the beach ;)

I’m posting this here because I think my brides will get a kick out of Malia Mills’ Bridal Swimwear. She does the “Just Married” bikini bottoms as well as personalized “Mrs …” bottoms crafted from Swarovski crystals. So cute!

Happy Monday!

Pamela

2006-12-08T22:42:00.000-08:00

We met under a canopied restaurant in Los Angeles. It was a warm summer day, so JD and I cornered ourselves into a plush booth, surrounded by overstuffed pillows. Orange rays crept into the patio through the slated canopy and took on womanly silhouettes when mixed with a neighbor’s cigarette smoke. We were waiting for our friends to arrive at Joseph’s and casually dined on Mediterranean appetizers. That’s where I met Pamela.

I was struck by her natural beauty. And her height. We started a conversation and discovered she’s originally from Miami, but relocated to Los Angeles to pursue modeling and acting. Obviously. As my friends slowly trickled in, Pamela and I exchanged contact information, said goodbye, and hoped our paths would cross again.

Well, four months later, they did.

Yesterday I had the pleasure of photographing Pamela along with Greg and Britney.

Here are a few of my favorites…

The Benefits of Worry

2006-12-06T07:53:00.000-08:00

I’ve been struggling with something lately. I can’t help it. Anyone who knows me well can tell you I’m a worrier. I worry about paying my bills online in a timely manner, then I worry about the Internet hackers who are going to steal my identity, then I worry about my tainted credit, then I worry about never being able to buy a house again, then I worry about living out of my car, then I worry about gas prices, then I worry about the US-Middle East Peace Talks, then I worry about nuclear threats…can you see where this is going? I know. Please don’t take the time to tell me I’m walking a thin line between genius and crazy. Because my mother’s already told me a thousand times I’m a genius.

So, lately, having the strange urge to worry about something, I began to worry that something will happen to preclude me from doing what I’m doing with my life. I can’t think of a time where I’ve been happier and more content, and I owe most of it to the amazing people who’ve allowed me to photograph them. Photography has opened so many doors and it’s as if my dreams were crafted for this specific cookie-cutter.

Yesterday, as I sat in traffic along the congested 5 freeway coming from Newport Beach, I reflected on what an awesome day I had. Then I worried. What if I fail? What if the publishers don’t like my work? What if my work reads like hieroglyphics? What if I’m struck with writer’s block?

You see, I had a meeting for an upcoming project I’m working on for a bridal magazine and, as I sat at the circular glass table surrounded by images of gorgeous wedding dresses, I couldn’t help but feel so blessed. This project is allowing me to combine my love for writing and fashion…and photography. I’m working with New York based photographer who shot Fashion Week for publication, so I’ll be keeping everyone posted when the magazine is available.

As I sat in traffic on my way home, my worries were just about to reach their pinnacle (What if I forget how to spell?!?), then JD called. He wanted to know what he should make for dinner, but ended up walking me away from the ledge of psychosis (Jasmine, if you forget to spell, you can run a Spell Check or use a good ‘ole fashion dictionary).

So the moral of the story is to always worry. I mean, the benefits are obvious: Your mother labels you a genius, your spouse will offer soothing words, and you’ll have a warm dinner waiting for you when you get home ;)

Here are a few from my day...

The main purpose of the article is to define brides into seven different categories and proffer the perfect stylist choice of wedding dress...

There were so many different designers represented, but I have to admit that Melissa Sweet and Reem Acra's collections were just stunning...